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Venture Capital and Thoughts, Much Less - Ramiberacha


This blog is written by Rami Beracha on the venture capital world. Rami is the Co-Founder of Sosa.
It's a major issue that people do not understand. It's a minefield that we've created. It begins seconds after our first encounter with someone, and concludes with an amazing explosion...
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The biggest mistake we make is to assume complete agreement in our expectations and do not even try to comprehend our partner's expectations. We are almost always in total alignment with our counterpart, minus one aspect that he does not take advantage of the opportunity to widen this expectation gap . There is no one to warn us of the coming confrontation.
There are many sources of confusion, and they are usually due to our individual personalities. People who are square are more likely to miscommunicate frequently with liberal personalities. Aggressive personalities may find it difficult to align expectations with passive people. It is simple to identify as everyone can tell that they are squared from moderate and passive from aggressive.
What if they're totally different? Imagine that there is a kind of personality gap that exists but that we are not aware of. It has not been found or reported on or even investigated by anyone. !
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Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduced you to a new type of personality that is shared by all of us: the FULL CIRCLE versus the HALF CIRCLE personality! !
Note : This is a behavioral guidance. After you've read the analysis, try to figure out which you are the most like in your character. In addition you should determine which person your companion in real life. You might be shocked to discover that you have different personalities. Like Bono sang, "we are one, but we are not the identical." It's a great sign as it could mean you have identified the root of of your different personalities. If, on the other hand, you are the same person I'm sorry to say that I am unable to help you figure out why you are in relationships that seem so bad.
And here we go...
Humans are split into two categories. A few of us fall under the "full-circle" category, which is an individual that can be completely independent and does not feel like the need for a partner. He's in need of a partner. Absolutely! all true! ... But, he will not be able to live without his dream partner until he locates one. Once he's found one, he wishes to continue living his life by his side with his - hopefully full circle of a partner.
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The "half-a circle" type is the other aspect of humankind. (No, it's not full-circle , but it was damaged during the birth). When they discover the miserable creature and they are unable to let go! To form an encircling circle, they will try to make their victim feel more physically. The Halves aren't content with anything less than staring at one another from a distance. They'll never accept anything less intimate in order to meet their need to be integrated with the other half and create a whole.
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A striking differentiator between these two types is the decision to end a relationship. The full circle is likely to let go relatively quickly from a partner he lost the chemistry of. The half-circle's on the other hand redefine the notion of having chemistry' with their partners to be: 'I'm holding onto this B..ST..RD. Until I can replace him correctly'.
Imagine the most amazing dance, when a "half a-circle" and a "full-circle" attempt to compete but without being aware of their different geometries. The Half is smiling and makes two steps in the direction of. The Full is a bit frightened by this unwelcome invasion to be slightly scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he did this by forcing the Half out of his comfort zone . When the Half thinks that the Full made an error of his own and then compensated with another step forward the Half becomes irritated and takes another step backwards.. The Full.. Half.. and the Half are all pissed off. They are unable to explain their pain and are unsure of the reason. The victims could have been spared if they had known that the one they are searching for is Half and the other is full.
There is no single conclusion to this essay but there are a few action items:
1. Find out who you are.
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2. Find out who your partner is
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3. Realize that there's a significant distinction.
3. Respect the different!
One of the conclusions is to live and enjoy life.

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