Notes

Look, I've been meaning to tell you this but I didn't know how and I didn't want you to feel bad, but... how do I say this? You may not realize it but the stuff you say hurts me and some stuff you do makes me uncomfortable. And it's kinda my fault for not telling you sooner, but I wanted to give you at least two weeks before I said anything cause I knew you were hurting. Like, when you make Indian/brown jokes, it hurts. And the reason I hate hugging now is because I hate being touched, and I get that you're a touchy person, but I just personally am not comfortable. And you say it's just a joke, but it really doesn't feel like a joke especially when I tell you to stop and then you say I'm just in a mood cause of my period or cause I'm a woman or because I'm "bipolar" or I'm "sad Nina" or something like that. The thing is, the stuff that you do as a joke is part of your funniness, and I'm not trying to change you or anything, I just want you to know that I don't like it. And I didn't want to tell you because I don't want you to feel bad or anything cause that's definitely not the goal of me telling you this. You wanted to know what was wrong, this is it.