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I had been over to the house, you introduced his sister to me, she had poked fun at me because my friend cracked a joke that I was into her and her grandma from which point she had started demeaning me and calling me and my character out, despite the one year difference in age she had called me a baby as well, that's where the disrespect started which was my first impression of her

With that in mind, out of all the three conversations I had with her, my friend tried to keep introducing her to me, from which she overheard me say I was not interested in talking to her and cracking jokes about being afraid of women, which she had found disrespectful.
So second time, I had been called gay, she straight up called me gay in a public space, the restaurant she and her brother were working at, I denied it and tried to be polite and mention the fact I didn't appreciate her being rude to me, I had explained the aforementioned joke which was "I'd rather call myself gay than to date your sister." clearing my name, people around here don't always take kindly to the queers, so slandering my image with that information in a public could be a potential death sentence, right? (edited)
[7:29 PM]
Of course, I'm not feeling good about her, those two times I had interacted with her she had demeaned me
[7:31 PM]
And now the third time was when I was drunk, feeling proud of myself during the holidays, I had a job, nice clothes, jewelry, I was feeling myself and was cracking jokes about being "The Man." which she didn't like, so while she's fussing at me, I had attempted to diffuse the situation by explaining, I have no enemies, I do not want to fight you or your boyfriend, but I will defend myself if the opportunity arises
[7:31 PM]
That is the whole story
[7:32 PM]
All she remembers is my tone sounding disrespectful and trying to be nice to me, so of course she's coming after me
[7:33 PM]
With that being said, I'm going to attempt to stay far far away, that way there will be no escalation, but with how she is acting
[7:33 PM]
I'm certain with all that aggression, she wants me down