Notes

Puberty,which is mostly happens at the age of 12 and ends in about 18 is a transition period betwee childhood and adulthood.This period may be distressed for both children and parents.During this period,the frequency of violence and violent actions may increase and many factors may trigger the risk of violence.Both parents and children may face with many problems.For example accordin to most parents,children may be ill-tempered.They may react in very unexpected way to every situation.They do not give importance to their schools.They are always bored to do something or to go somewhere.They always fight with their friends or their sisters or brothers because they always want their own wishes come true.Since they are so pensive in this period they always day-dream in their daily life.They can be so senstive especially girls may cry for everything.They want to do whatever they want for example they want to go out every time they want or they want to wear everything they want.They are more tend to tell lies because they usually do bad things or the things that their parents do not recommend.Now if we have a look at the childrens point of view.According to children parents always intolerant towards them.Children think that their parents do not listen the situation and always want their children do the things they want.As i said they always want their wishes come true,they can not make friends.They see themselves as less confident.So what should parents o to get over this period with least harm for both side? Firstly parents should listen their children careffuly they should show that they give importance what their children say or do evn if they have completely different ideas.Secondly they can sometimes ignore their childrens little bad manners.They should definitely appreciate their children when they do something good.Lastly,parents should be ready the moods of their children which changes in a short time.They may be happy in the morning and they become sad in the evening.