Notes

When you read a status update that more than probably has something to do with you and you can see yourself in it, then some things need to get addressed. Often, I ask(ed) myself "Am I a monster?" "Do my desires and my thoughts make me a bad person?" "Do I really care about others or am I only out for me?" That last one scares me to no end. Because, for me it's partially true. There needs to be more of a conscious effort to actually listen to people, to care about them, because they care about you, and having someone care about you is a deeper, truer love, Then things that are carnal. I'm being vague for a reason. I just want them to know that I saw it, knew that it wasn't about me more than likely, although I could be wrong, if so, that's not cool of me, it's not a lie, unfortunately, physical attraction is a thing that needs to be considered as a secondary accessory and not a sole purpose. That being said I do think highly of them as a person, and their thoughts, And if anyone is just straight up thinking of them in a physical manner, get to know them, they are delightful, and thoughtful, and someone special.