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Venture Capital and Thoughts, Much Less - Ramiberacha


Rami Beracha blogs about the world of venture capital. Rami is the Co-Founder of Sosa.
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The issue of miscommunication is very significant. I'd say it's like a minefield that we have created .. It starts a second after the first contact is made with a person and ends with an incredible explosion...
Our greatest mistake is that we assume total agreement in our expectations, without ever trying to understand our partner's expectations. There's one thing that we are completely in accord with our partner in - he also doesn't miss the chance to increase the gap in expectations. .... No one is there to warn us of the coming conflict.
There are a variety of reasons that lead to confusion, and many of them stem from our personality. Square personalities are more likely to not communicate with people who are liberal. People who are aggressive will struggle to align their expectations with the expectations of passive people. This is easy to recognize - everyone knows that they are squared from the liberal, and passive from the aggressive.
What happens if they're totally different? They'll not be aware of it. Imagine to yourself that there is a kind of personality gap that exists, but which is not even noticed by us. It has never been discovered or reported on or even investigated by anyone. !
Ladies and gentlemen! I'd like to introduce you to a brand-new personality one that we all share. The characters of the FULL CIRCLE are different from the HALF CLIRCLE personalities. !
It is a behavioral guide. After reading the analysis below, try to identify the personality that most accurately describes you. Also, try to identify your partner in life. If you find that you're of two different kinds - as Bono song says "we are all one, however we're different" - then you should be thrilled because you might have discovered the reason behind many of your differences! If however, you're both of the same kind and you're both of the same type, then I'm unable to tell you why your relationships look so horrible.
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Here we are...
Two distinct groups of people are referred to as human. There are those who are "full-circle' who are a self-contained person who is completely at home by him. Sure, he requires an accomplice, yes, that he would like to have a partner and yes, he's in continuous search of the right partner. Absolutely! All true ... But, until he's found his dream partner, he will be able to live without one. He would like to share his life with his partner and is determined to be able to complete his circle.
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The other side of humanity is comprised of the "half-a-circle" types (not to be confused with "half-a-circle") (no it's not full circles that were damaged during the birth) - ... Yes they are in need of a partner They want to find a partner very badly, and yes, they are in constant searching, even religious, to find a suitable partner... and yes it's on the same scale as matters of national security that they find their partner because they just cannot survive without one. Once they have found the miserable animal that they have found, they won't give up! They will move to almost physically integrate with their victim in order to form a happy circle... and do not allow them to experience the dreadful reality of living shoulder to shoulder! The Halves will not accept anything less than staring at each other from a distance of zero distance for the rest. They'll never compromise on anything less intimate in order to satisfy their desire to connect with each other and make up a whole.
A striking distinction between these types is the decision to let go a partner. The complete circle will usually be quick to let go of the person they've lost chemistry with. The 'half-a circle' type will however redefine what it means to have an enmity with their partner. They'll say they're 'holding onto this B..ST..RD' until they can replace him with an version.
Imagine to yourself the unbelievable dance that takes place in the moment two "half-a-circle" and an "full-circle" attempt to make one each other the other's partner, but not aware of their differing geometries: the Half joyfully makes two steps forward, way past the comfort zone of the Full, who considers this unwelcome invasion into his own personal space a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He forced the Half out of his comfort zone . While the Half assumes that the Full made a wrong move, and he kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half becomes more concerned and begins to feel irritated. They don't know why, but they lack proper terminology and can't explain the situation. Therefore, they head to the wrong places. They could have saved themselves in the event that they knew the difference between Full and Half.
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This essay doesn't have any conclusive conclusion. However it does contain some action items.
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1. Find out more about who you are
2. Discover who is your true partner is
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3. Make the distinction.
3. Respect the difference!
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One conclusion is: Live and enjoy life.

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