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and How many are you talking to spo Far??
You are the First im alvera By name and Im From OK But Now living In west palm beach,FLORIDA.....I Hope you are not Botthered about the Distance Between us? and Whats Your age and Are You single? and Have you Ever Been Married?

Im 30 and Iwidowed since last two years....and I want to settle down again....I hope you are not bothered about the age and distance Btween us? and Do you have any children? What do you do for a living?

Hello, Calvary Greetings to you , I'm Patricia and am new on here it will be a pleasure of mine to a Man like you to know what you are seeking for on here. Am nit much used to talking on here you can text me if also you have interest in talking to me too, This is my cell text me (424) 242-4899 or add me on hangout [email protected]

What's your marital status ?
No i haven't been married before, the man i was suppose to get married died 2 weeks before d wedding date , this incident was early last year and ever since i've met a guy so loving, honest and caring like him


so Tell me since when have you been using dating site and how did you know about it?
Well Im On The Dating site Looking for the right man for me, The Man im going stay with for the rest of my Life, some one i can Call my Husband, some one I can Grow Old with, and It was a Friend Of Mine That Found Her soul Mate On the Same Site Introduced it to Me so I just think i should Give it a Go May be I too Can find a Good Man Like What Im looking for....

What kind of a lady are u seeking for ?
its same here. am seeking a man whom would love me for whom i am and not just after the inheritance left behind for me or who want my body and go, most have met are just after my body and money
and Only man Im Talking to....

So what are you looking for On there

What sort of relationship you seek for?
I seek to have a long term relationship with someone I love and we can grow old together,honesty,understanding,sincerity,love and sharing,sharing the good times and bad times together with no fear of what the world might put upon us. I guess would come the balance that is missing in my life, someone who can trust me and I can trust with feelings, innermost secrets and desires in life.

What do you seek in a relationship
I seek Honesty, faithfulness,caring, the ability
to love me for who I am,not who you want me to be,I don't expect anybody to
change for me, I shouldn't have to change for
I want my husband to be honest, loving caring, loyal, yet independent with an open mind,the relationship I want us to be build on the solid foundation which is love and trust,I do believe with this 2 ingredients of relationship,so many relationships has come to success unlike ones built on falsies and pretenses.

What do you do for fun? I like to do a wide variety of things for fun. I like to bowl, shoot pool, play golf, none of which I'm very good at, but I really enjoy them. I also like to get away, maybe a weekend trip to the beach , or go to the mountains just to relax and enjoy

Which religion do you practice?
I'm a Christian...I do believe in God a lot..i have All My Faith and Believe in Him Cause with GOD all things are Possible

Are you a morning or night person? I'm both a morning and night person to a sense when I have to work

What is your idea of a perfect date?
Go to the beach and find a very secluded part where we can lay down, talk, laugh and watch the sunset while taking a bottle of wine with some fruits, cheese crackers or whatever food we like on a blanket. Take a walk on the beach under the stars go back to the blanket cuddle kiss and make love

what's your fav food , drink, well I dont Drink...But i Can say Water...Lol, relative, gift to receive, style?

My favorite...color, Blue food, pork chops and mashed potatoes,Pizza and sea food. place to go, anywhere with the Man of my life as long as we are both happy movie, The Crow(with Brandon Lee),and I really like The lake house song, now that's a tough one, probably Sitting on the Dock of the Bay drink, well I dont drink and I Can only say water or Soft Drinks Lol! Relatives .....Well i Lost My parents in a Car accident But When Things was Hard for me, I was Unable to Pay Bills....So i went to stay with My Grand ma and My Cousin and I started Living with Them....gift to receive, love, everything else pales in comparison style, ,so my favorite style is more dress/casual


How do you feel about public intimacy?
Yes, but only to a point. Giving my boyfriend a hug, a kiss, or holding hands are great, but nothing further I think that should stay behind closed .doors

so tell me how long have you been single and any luck yet? I haven't had a boyfriend in over 2 years. That i have lost my Husband and I Havent Dated any man since Then cos Most men here seek only Sex and After then Nothing More and Thats Not What Im Looking for I Really want to settle Down again., i have just been through alot meeting the right man for me.......Couple dates, it just seemed like I had no connection with them, an they wasn't ready for long term deals


So Tell me Do you want children, if so how many?
Yes I do still want children ..2 or 3 kids. however this time I'd like to be better prepared for Motherhood.

What is your dream job, car, vacation, house?
I dont have my dream job, I would like to havew My Own Business, my dream car is a '57 Willy's, my grandfather had one when I was a kid, and I loved that car, vacation, to spend a whole year traveling and learning history of different places and cultures, house, a log and stone house way out in the country, maybe out west up in the mountains.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
I always want to be A kid,(l.o.l.) I always wanted to be the best Mother and Wife I could ever be.

How would You treat your woman?
I treat all Guys with the utmost respect,ns I would my Man My Man with My Man with Respect and I will always go My His Command and I will always go my His Rules and Regulations...I will give all the love in my heart and soul, as well as I possibly can.

Why do you need a woman?
I need a Man so I can share my life with, Although I have spent 8 Months single, and to me it was well worth it, I feel like I'm only half of what I can be.

How would you love your wife?
without judgment or jealousy. I wouldI will Treat My Man with every bit of being I have in my heart and soul, love my man with the love you can have only for that special guy in your life. and Like a King....

What is love to you?
Its Being able to always see the goodness in a persons heart, being able to see past the shortcomings and realize that the person is who you want to grow old with and have those "butterflies" throughout life.

Would you ever hit your woman for any reason?
I too will NEVER do That, I honestly just couldn't live with myself doing that. One thing my mother taught me is just how wrong that action is and how devastating it can be when you are in love. I'm afraid of how that would adversely affect how I feel about myself. I might come across sort of gruff, but truth be told, I'm just a teddy bear at heart, the thought of hurting ANYBODY, hurts me.

What is the socio-economic background of your family?
My Late dad Was an international business man,He travells a lot and also deals with importation and exportation of goods.My Late mom Was a Full House wife ....I Am The Only Daughter of My Late Parents

What is your level of intelligence?
I think that I have above average intelligence; I was the first student in my class of high school out of 8 students. I began studying at the university before graduating from high school, because I had excellent grades. I like to learn new things, intelligence is important to me.-

What is your formal education?
I attended the university for 4 years. I studied computer science, but I did not graduate. I left the school to begin to working in the computer industry.

What are your verbal abilities?
I think that I have above average abilities of communication, both writing and verbal, and I enjoy interesting conversations.

God made the man primarily to provide the income and the protection for the home and the family, and I think that the woman is made to control and guide the matters of the house and to provide the instruction of the children, but each partner can help the other person in their family responsibilities.

What are your views about the distribution of power inside the family?
God made the man to be the leader in the family, but there are many areas where the woman can have more comprehension and understanding than the man, so she contributes her ideas to him, and he listens to her reasoning.

How many children do you want?
I have always think about having a child, but I think it would be nice to have a child, or children, with the man who loves me and lives all of his life with me.

When should a family be begun?
I want to wait some months before having children so I can enjoy much time alone with my husband.

What are your views on the care of children?
Parents should be the primary influence for children, not the school, neither the friends, neither the television nor the movies. I believe that children should respect adults, and children should help in the matters of the house. The children and the parents should be close to each other with good communication each day.

What is your political philosophy?
I prefer the conservative laws that are similar to the commandments in the Bible, and I prefer less interference of government in personal lives.

What are your views about smoking, alcohol and drugs?
I think that these things are generally negative because in high volumes they damage the body, but I like to drink some wine from time to time, and I want to enjoy this with my husband.

How much contact should occur with in-laws?
After the wedding a couple should make their own decisions and the in-laws should not intervene with these decisions. Occasional visits are acceptable, but not on a frequent basis.

What is your sense of humor?
I am a happy person and I like to laugh and to enjoy life.

How punctual are you?
I am generally on time, but at times I am late.
How dependable are you?
I try to be very reliable and to maintain my promises. I value the truth in myself and in others.
What is your desire for intimacy and your verbal aI try to be very reliable and to maintain my promises. I value the truth in myself and in others.bility to be intimate?
I have a strong desire for all forms of intimacy and I think that I have the ability to give a lot of intimacy, physically and verbally.
What is the role of conflict and how to resolve conflict in marriage?
Conflict is a time when 2 people can speak their opinions and understand one another better, but the conflicts should be discussed peacefully, sometimes in a different environment. There should not be the conflicts in the bedroom, because this is a special sanctuary of love and harmony for the marriage.

What is the best way to handle anger?
At times it is good to have a period of reflection and meditation before discussing the themes of anger, at times it is good to write down your feelings to discuss with your companion.

How should friendships with the other sex be handled?
The husband and the wife should not have any better friends than each other, they should be best friends with each other, and they should not have friendships with the other sex unless approved by the other partner.

What is the quantity of the privacy in the marriage?
Many things of the marriage should be private to people outside the marriage, but the people in the marriage should be capable of sharing all with one another.

What is your level of ambition?
I always try to become better and to attain the potential that God gave to me. I do not work to be rich, I work to be comfortable and to have love and peace in my life.

What are the goals of your life?
A peaceful and loving marriage is the greatest goals in my life. Love is the most important thing in the life.

What are your attitudes about body weight?
I want my wife to maintain a healthy weight and to maintain her body and in clean and good condition. I prefer a small woman who is healthy. I have never been overweight and I intend to keep my body size in proper proportion.

What are your faith and beliefs and spiritual preferences?
I have been s student of the Bible since I was a child. Communication with God should be a daily priority for each person, and also the couple can share in their devotion to God with one another. Although I do not attend church service every week, I would like to do this with my wife. I am a Christian, and I want a Christian wife.

What is the proper amount of church attendance?
Perhaps one time on the weekend, and maybe a study of the Bible once each week, but I think that personal devotion is more important than church attendance.

What should be the spiritual involvement of the family?
I think the family should study the Bible together and also as individuals.

What are your hobbies and interests?
Exercising, playing and listening to music, learning, meditating, gardening.

What type of music do you like?
Gospel, contemporary Christian, rock, jazz.

What is your level of energy for physical activities?
I would want to have some type of physical activity each day with my wife; I hope that we can exercise together.

What is the importance of sex?
It is very important for both partners to be satisfied completely sexually and to maintain a high level of attention to the sexual needs of the other partner.

How much income should be spent and saved?
Money should be saved for emergencies and also for projects and special holidays.

How should money be assigned for clothes, vacations, etc.?
There should be short-term and long-term financial goals for the family, which include using some money for clothes, vacations, entertainment, etc.

How much money should be given and to whom?
Money can be given for gifts or for emergencies but not to maintain to other members of the family.

How much risk should be taken with investments?
Very little.

What is your attitude toward cleanliness of the home, the clothes, the body, etc.?
I appreciate cleanliness in every aspect. I do not like a lot of clutter in the house.

What is your attitude toward personal health?
Eat healthy and exercise to prevent many illnesses, but medical attention is necessary when illness persists.

How often do you go to see a doctor?
I have an annual physical checkup and dental checkup, and also I exercise to maintain my body and to have good health.

What are your social and interpersonal skills?
I feel that my abilities are above average. I can talk to strangers and most people feel comfortable speaking with me. However, I prefer to be quiet.

How much and what type of social participation do you prefer?
The majority of the focus should be on the marriage, with some time assigned for outside social participation. I spend most of my time focused on achieving my goals.

What geographical area do you want to live in?
I prefer to live far from the city where the land is clean and quiet and with few people, but for the next 10 years I should live near the city for the economic advantage. I love the mountains and I wish that I lived in a place with cooler weather.

What is the size and the style of the house you prefer?
I own my house, it has 4 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. I want to purchase another house in the future, with a larger yard for more intimacy, and also with a large bathtub to enjoy with my wife.

What is the type of furniture and decorations do you prefer in the home?
I will be happy for my wife to make these decisions. I prefer simplicity and functionality.. I do not follow many trends in style and fashion.

What is the quantity and the type of vacations preferred?
I want to travel and to take many trips with my wife. I prefer nature and quiet and beautiful places, but sometimes I want to go to cities and public amusements.

How do you want to spend the vacations?
Seeing nature, learning history, being relaxed in nature, doing the things that are peaceful, hiking in the mountains, playing in the snow.

How do you want to celebrate the major holidays?
Usually with family and friends, but sometimes at home alone.

How much together time do you want to spend with your spouse?
As much as possible.

When do you go to sleep and when do you wake up?
I need 8 to 9 hours of sleep each night.

What is the temperature of the home during the day and night?
I prefer the house to be cool at night for sleeping.

What should be done during meals?
Meals are a good time for conversation, not to look at a lot of television.

What television programs do you prefer?
History, science, learning, some sports, Biblical and spiritual programs.



MORE ABOUT ME
Good Morning





A sense of humor is a big plus. I want a soul mate that will be down earth to every one in life and generous laugh with any one to make people happy and lifely that will not be double dating a soul mate or cheat on me in anyway.

I am not a lady that is after a guy's pocket i am wanting a True Love and to be treated the same way i will be treating my Man after i broke with my ex , I decided to remain single till i find the right guy, I can't stand it more hurt, that's why i'm being cautious now cos my ex really took my love for granted. Though love is easy to spot, when someone has found it but you must have hope in your heart before you can love and also that sometimes what you're looking for is right where you left it, which i don't know if it might be you

If we do find out that we are meant for each other then we could both find a way on how we are going to meet each other in person, distance is not a problem, if i find the right man i don't mind relocating coz I'm absolutely independent.
with all this that i had gone through though is very painful but i always believe that, that is the way God wanted it because we are nothing but a pencil in the hand of the creator.

I will stop here for now till when i would reading from you again, remember even we are not lovers we can always remain best of friends,i hope you will love my pics,and let me have your own pics too also let me know about you , bye for now. Hope to hear from you soon. Pls Make Sure You Read My Mail Carefully And Reply Me With Your Pics So I can see how the man i'm talking to looks like OK?

Patricia Cares !!!!

Your's Sincerely,
Launa.


MORE THINGS ABOUT ME..

Hello,
How are you doing today? How is your day Been so far? Well I really do not know where to begin, I am a spiritual Christian, I am in no way close to being perfect but I do work at striving to be the best I can be. I will attempt to give you some insight as to whom I am and into my character.
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I am a good Lady. Let me describe what I am talking about. " A Good Lady " is proud of who she is. her respects herself & others. I am aware of who I am. I neither seeks definition from the man I am with, nor do I expect are to read my mind. I am quite capable of articulating my needs.. I am strong enough to make my dreams reality.

I know love, therefore I give love. I realize that my love has great value & should be reciprocated. If my love is taken for granted, it will fade away. Am a good woman knows God. I understands my past, present and future. I know that with God all is possible, however without God I will just be played.. I do not live in fear of the future because of my past, instead, I understand that my life experiences are merely lessons, meant to bring me closer to God, self awareness, & unconditional love.While not exhaustive, the following fundamental qualities is what I seek in a relationship.

Are you committed? The core of the word committed means "binder" or "pledge" therefore, you we should be capable of living up to it's meaning. We should demonstrate a lifestyle of FIDELITY in words, actions,and deeds. Simply stated, your words should be backed by your actions.
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Are you trustworthy? Honoring promises is high on my list of requirements in being a person of integrity. If you are trustworthy, you will seek to respect your words and actions, and live thru them. The foundation of any good relationship begins with trust. If you honor your words, you are a priceless asset.
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Are you faithful? A person who possesses this quality will demonstrate an allegiance towards God, and each other. In any environment, whether private or social, your standards remain stable and consistent. This character quality is a necessity towards building a solid relationship. It is not an option, but mandatory.

Are you giving? This quality is not about giving material gifts, but about selfless behavior. You should be centered on giving of yourself and putting others first. You should demonstrate sensitivity towards others and have the ability to act upon it. Most notably, we should promote opportunities for growth and support of each other.

We should relish in the fact of watching each other grow. I hope this gives you a little insight as to the person I am. Kids, I love kids, as you Know i have one, and kids love me. They are our future!! as My son is One of my Precious Future OR i'd love so too and have kids all over me . right from childhood i love been around kids and i have this urge passion for kids, though i don't have now but hoping to have in future for a man who would love and appreciate them.... Tell me about you. Much love, respect and blessings. So please get back to me and tell me more about yourself too if you like what you have just read about me ...... Best Regards,

Always Launa.....


MORE THINGS ABOUT ME.....
Hello Sweet heart,
How you doing and how was ur day thanks for getting back to me, I just look at ur profile, and I must say--it made quite of an impression on me!! While I was reading it I realized that you just might be the man that I have waited for all of my life!! That though makes me very happy

Let me start again by saying i am very romantic and I like to pay a lot of attention to my man. I also like to give him compliments and tell him how nice looking he is and how much I love him.. It is not unusual for me to do nice things and buy presents for my man, i like to write poems in my spare time if things works out for and we meet i will write one for you lol,I like to laugh and have fun.

I like to laugh and have fun with my man, sometimes I can be very silly as to make my man smile or laugh, i have been know to be a nut (clown) from time to time just to lighten things up, but I do have my serious side. I also like things to be clean and in order, but I do understand that when people live in a home that it will look lived in and not like a museum.

You will find that I like to do nice things for my man. I spoil my man when he makes me happy. I will also cook for him as I am a very good cook. I cook at the house when my cousins come around. They all like what I cook for them. I don't mind helping with the cleaning and laundry around the house, but my favorite thing to do is work out in my yard and plant flowers and manicure the lawn so our home will look nice and be someplace we will be happy to say is our home.

I love to take long drive in the country on one of my Honda civic and I would hope that my future man would enjoy this too. i am just so short of words...baby i love ur words.. to be sincered. the more u tell me more about your self the more i feel for you

Having someone that loves you and supports you in your life through good and bad times and won’t give up on you is what I am looking for. Honesty and trust are what makes a relationship work. Without that--I just as well spend my time reading a good novel--at least then I can be fulfilled--that is somewhat.LOL There is no substitute for being in the arms of the man that I love and that loves me.......Ahhhhh I can't wait!!!!!! I dream about it all of the time

There are times when I like to go out party and act like a nut (clown) Laugh and have fun, and play billiards and as i said before I love to dance and I like many different type's of music and sports, but I also like to share some private time on the couch in front of the fireplace watching a good movie on TV or take a walk together with my pets and that special person


I am open to children, but I think that is a decision that we both must make together as all big and important decisions should be made together between the both of us. As for me I am a very hard working woman. Though my work is not going well now, but i'm hoping for better days to come so that i can make good earnings i know that things will get better for me soon i can travel and have a nice home to live in and a nice car and motorcycles, but mostly so my future man can have everything he needs and our children.

So I would be open to relocating if I find the right man, I dont like cheating on any one and I hate lying, and i hate it when I find it difficult to be trusted and I hate playing games, or doing anything that will indicate me and people around me and that will spoil my reputation In the society...I dont do drugs and i will never put my hand into it and i hope you dont do it?

I am a very good communicator and I love to talk things over. I hate to argue, and I am a very honest and caring lady. I would like for my future man to be able to work along with me so that we can set goals and achieve them, and so we may have a very good life together and do things as well as have things to make both of our lives together much better.

Fidelity and Honesty are tops on my list of what I expect from my partner and i believe trust is a foundation that a relationship is built on. It is very hard to build trust and very easy to break it. I am not jealous unless I have a reason to be. It is normal for a pretty man to catch the eye of another woman and I feel that it is a compliment to me, as long as she is treated with respect I do not have a problem with that, but if anyone is disrespectful to my man then I can be a very nasty person and I will protect him at all costs.

The time I marry I want it to be until the day that I die. There must be passion and love with the two, there must be passion and love with the man that I marry. My dream is to meet a best friend, and lover. he must be honest, faithful, caring, hard working, passionate, attractive and treat me in the way that I will treat him.

I get very tan in the summer from riding my bikes and from going to the pool to swim and play with my pets. I'm an animal lover and i love all animals. I am the Woman who will bring home a stray dog or stop and move a turtle out of the road so it won't get hit by a car.

The very reason I am interested in establishing a Relationship with you is because I feel I have a lot to offer you in the way of a friendship and I know I have a lot to share with you that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise yoI would like to meet my you. I look forward to hearing from you soon as I am very interested in you

Take care Sweetie
Launa



WE HAVE A LOT IN COMMON
Hello How are you doing i really love to always Hear from you and that make me feel Good About your Feelings i will really like to be the one you are looking for i want to get to know you better and see where it lead us too you really sound great to me i think you are the right man for me? I was born and brought up in U.S and am widow with one son , i was here in Pa with my Late Husband that pass away in year 2009 But since when i lost my husband i move to my uncle in Anchorage,in Alaska with Rob I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am, what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today.

i really love to always Hear from you and that make me feel good about your feelings, i will really like to be the one you are looking for i want to get to know you better and see where it lead us too you really sound great to me i think you can be right man for me

The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send a message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality friendship with you, and because of the fact I rarely contact anyone , so when I do you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions.

i Gave Birth to Rob when was still with my husband that pass away in Altoona, Pa but now in Anchorage Alaska with my uncle and since when my late husband have pass away thing have be so hard for me and my uncle and Rob My Son is 4yrs Old and he will be 5yrs Soon...and am here seeking for the right man that will take care of my family and i want my husband to be honest and caring And i wish that man should be you and I do Like going to the beach.Age differences does not bother me since my Husband was 9yrs older than me..and am 30yrs old

Am looking for a man that will be able to listen to me , communicate his feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need a man That will always stand by my side, respect me, passionate lover in every way, support me in every way, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time ,constantly reactive, and treat me right.... I know you will think what is a pretty lady like me doing on here .. Yes the reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise .you really need to believe am for Real and am ready to do anything to prove myself i know this is Internet but we do give every things in life a try and i will want us to give this a try too, I do not believe in playing games too. Age difference does not really bother me in a relationship my ex was 9yrs older than me Like i said earlier run.

The very reason I am interested in establishing a Relationship with you is because I feel I have a lot to offer you in the way of a friendship and I know I have a lot to share with you that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you.

I am very much a woman of substance and I am very unique in today's society because I live my life through my spirituality and through the word of God and because I have such a strong understanding of what I feel my role in life is suppose to be. I am a woman of integrity and my word is my honor!. I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, peace and happiness to others.For you to get a better understanding of me picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion I have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, as the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart. I will really be happy to meet you someday we just need to Look forward to that day..

Where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about how many they can write, I am the opposite and very selective in whom I choose to write and I like to give them my very best even if it is in a long letter such as this. I know the type of person who I want to build a Relationship with so I am willing to put the time and effort in my messages to show that to you.

Your's Truly
Launa