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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha writes about the world of venture capital. Rami is the Co-Founder of Sosa.
Communication issues are a major problem. It's a danger zone, which is our mistake. It starts one second after the first interaction with another person, and concludes with an amazing explosion...
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Our biggest mistake is almost always taking for granted that there is a complete alignment of expectations for both sides. We don't attempt to get inside our partner's thoughts to find out what his expectations are. There's one aspect, however, that we are in complete accord with our partner in - he also doesn't miss an opportunity to expand this expectation gap .... There is no one to warn us about the upcoming clash.
There are many causes for miscommunications, and most of them have to do with our personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to miscommunicate with people of a liberal mindset, and aggressive personalities will find a hard time aligning expectations with passive ones. This is simple to spot - everyone knows squared from liberal and passive from aggressive.
But what if they are completely different? Think about if there is a personality gap. This isn't something any person has ever investigated or warned about, nor discovered. !
Let me introduce to you, gentlemen and ladies, a new type if personality that we share with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus those from the HALF circle! !
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This analysis offers the ability to make better decisions about your behavior. Find out the personality that best defines who you are and then determine who your partner is. You might be shocked to find that you have different personalities. Like Bono said, "we are one, however, we're not the same." It's a good sign because it could mean you have found the root cause of many of your differences. If you're of the opposite kind I'm sorry that I could not assist you in understanding why your relationships appear like crap.
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Here we go...
There are two kinds of human beings that are called humans. There are two types of people: the 'full circle' kind, who is completely self-contained and is completely comfortable being alone. Sure, he's required to be with someone and yes, he's always looking for one. Absolutely! All true ... But, until he's found his dream partner, he will be able to live without one. If he can find the perfect one and has found the right one, he'll be able to live the rest of his life with his complete circle partner.
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The other aspect of humanity is made up of "half-a-circle" kinds that are (no it's not full circles that have been damaged during the delivery) (see below) ... It's true they require a partner and yes, they need an ally desperately, yes, they're in constant, almost religious, search for a new partner... and yes, it's on the same scale for national security to locate their ideal partner as they simply cannot survive without one. Once they have found the grumpy creature and they are determined to keep go of it. They'll try to physically integrate their victim into a happy circle. They'll not be compromising on being capable of looking at each with each other for the rest of their lives. Only intimacy will fill their need for connection with one another and form one whole.
The choice to let go is an everyday occurrence. Someone who is no longer chemistry-wise with the whole circle will be let go in a natural way by the entire circle. The 'half-a circle' type , however, will redefine the meaning of having mutual chemistry with their partners. They'll claim that they're 'holding onto this B..ST..RD until they are able to replace him with a more effective upgraded version.
Imagine the most amazing dance, that occurs when a "half a-circle" and a "full-circle" are trying to create one another, without being aware of their distinct geometrical shapes. The Half smiles and makes two steps forward. The Full considers this unwelcome invasion to be slightly scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The only issue is that he took the Half from his comfort zone. When .... the Half is sure that the Full made an innocent mistake. When he take a step to make up for it with a step forward, the Full begins to be irritated and take a further, more significant step in the opposite direction.. the Half begins to realize that there is something sinister regarding what's happening here and his next step isn't exactly gentle.. The Full.. The Half.. The Full and the half are irritated with the other. They don't know why but they aren't using the correct terminology and don't know how to describe it. Therefore, they head to the wrong places. They could have been spared had they known that the one they are looking for is Half while the other is fully.
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While this piece is not intended to provide a complete list of guidelines, there are actions you can follow.
1. Discover who you really are
2. Discover who is your real partner is
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3. Know the difference.
3. Be respectful of the differences!
actually, one conclusion that is true: Live and let live.

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