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Venture Capital, Thoughts and Much Less - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha blogs about the world of venture capital. Rami is Co-Founder of Sosa.
The issue of miscommunication is very serious. It is a minefield of our own making. It starts one second after the first encounter with another person, and concludes with a massive explosion...
The biggest error we make is that, for no reason at all, we always assume that we are in complete agreement with the expectations of both sides without even trying to get our partner's brain to figure out what his expectations of us are. But there's one thing we can almost always agree on: he doesn't miss an opportunity ....to widen the expectation gap There's no one on the planet to warn us of the coming clash.
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There are many possible sources of miscommunication. Many of them stem from personality differences. Individuals with squares are likely to be misinformed by those who are liberal, while individuals who are aggressive will have difficult to align expectations with passive ones. This isn't difficult to recognize - we all know the distinction between liberal and squared, and active from passive.
However, what do you think if they're very different, only they cannot realize it. There is a chance that there exists a gap in their personalities that we aren't aware of. No one has ever discovered it or warned about it, studied it...NOT even been frightened! !
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Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduced you to a new type of personality that we all share: The FULL CIRCLE and the HALF CIRCLE types! !
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Note: A behavioral guideline as you read the next analysis, look for which of the two personalities most accurately describes you as well as attempt to determine the person who your life partner is. If you discover that you're distinct types - like Bono sings "we are one but we are different" You should be very happy because you may have found the root-cause for some of your differences! If you're the same as me, then I'm sorry to say that I'm unable to help with understanding why your relationships seem so bad.
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Now we are...
Humans can be divided into two categories. A few of us fall under the "full-circle" category that is a person who is completely self-sufficient and doesn't believe that needing an accomplice. Yes, he needs partners, yes, there is a need for a partner and yes, he's on a perpetual search of an ideal partner. Absolutely! It's true! ... But, he'll be able to survive without the perfect partner until he finds one. He wants to share his life with his love and is hoping to complete his circle.
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Half-a-circle people make up the remaining half of humanity. They won't let go once they've found their unhappy companion. To create an encircling circle, they will try to join their victim physically. The Halves don't want to give up anything less than starring one at the opposite from a distance of a single pixel for the rest of their lives. It is impossible to make them feel more intimate than that.
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A striking differentiator between these two types is the choice to end a relationship. The entire circle will undoubtedly let go of a partner who is losing their chemistry quickly. Half-circle people, however redefine the term 'having mutual chemistry with their partner' to mean - 'im keeping this B..ST..RD until I am able replace them with a suitable upgrade'.
Imagine the amazing dance that occurs when a "half" and "full" circle try to force each other to become their counterparts. They're unaware of their differences. The Half makes two leaps forward, far beyond the comfort zone of his Full who finds this sudden invasion of his personal space a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he accomplished this by taking the Half out of his comfortable zone . As the Half thinks that the Full has made an innocent mistake and responded with a step forward the Half begins to become irritated and takes another step backwards.. The Full.. Half.. and the Half are both pissed off. They aren't sure why, however, they don't have the proper terminology and can't describe it. They go to the wrong place. They could have saved their lives by being aware that one is Half and the other one is Full.
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While there is no one conclusion, there are several ways to go about it.
1. Find out who you are.
2. Find out who you are with
3. Be aware of the difference.
3. Respect the difference!
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One conclusion could be drawn"Live and let live..

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