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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha's blog is about the venture capital industry. Rami is also Co-Founder of Sosa.
Communication issues are a major issue. I'd say it's kind of a minefield that is our own creation .. It starts just a few seconds after contact, and then ends with an incredible explosion...
The most common mistake we make is to assume that we're in complete alignment in our expectations for each other and not trying to guess what our counterparts expect from us. One thing, however, which we are in total accord with our partner in - he also doesn't miss an opportunity to widen the gap between expectations. .... And no one is there to warn us of the coming clash.
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There are a variety of reasons for communication issues, but they are generally related to our different personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to confuse liberal ones, and people who are aggressive may have difficult to align expectations with those of passive people. But, this isn't difficult to identify We all know the distinction between squared and liberal, and active from passive.
Imagine if they were different? It is possible that there is a personality gap, which we do not know about. It's not something anybody has researched or even identified. !
Let me introduce you ladies and gentlemen to an entirely new kind of personality we all share the FULL CIRCLE characters in contrast to the half-circular people. !
Note: A behavior guideline as you read the following analysis, attempt to determine which of the two personalities describe you best and at the same time look for out which one of your friends is. If you find that you belong to two different types, as Bono states "we're one , but we're not alike" You should be happy. It is possible that you have discovered the root-cause of some of the differences in your life! If however, you're both of the same kind and you're both of the same type, then I can't help but to tell you why your relationships look so terrible.
We are now...
Humans can be classified into two groups. Some of us fall into the "full-circle" category which refers to a person that can be completely independent and doesn't feel that he needs to have a partner. Sure, he requires an accomplice, yes, that he would like to have a partner and yes he is in continuous search of a partner. Absolutely! It's true! ... However, he'll never be able to live without a suitable partner. He will continue to live his life side by side with the person he is going to marry once the time comes to find one.
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The "half-a circle" type is the other face of the human race. (No it's not a the full-circle type that was damaged in delivery). Once they have found the grumpy creature that they have found, they will not let go. To form a joyful circle, they will nearly join with their victims... but do not let them go through the bullshit of living side-by-side! The Halves don't want to give up anything less than starring one at the opposite from a distance of a single pixel for the rest of their lives. They'll never settle for anything less intimate in order to meet their need to be integrated with their other half to make up a whole.
The decision to let go of someone is an ordinary occurrence. If a partner is no longer chemistry-wise within the circle will be let go easily by the entire circle. The 'half-a circle' type , however, will redefine what it means to have the same chemistry as their partners. They will say that they're holding on to this B..ST..RD until they can replace him with a more effective upgrade.
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Imagine to yourself the unbelievable dance that takes place in the moment two people, a "half-a-circle" and the "full-circle" are trying to impress their partner, without being conscious of their distinct geometries. The Half moves two steps ahead, way past the comfort zone of the Full who find this unexpected invasion of his personal space bit intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. Problem is, he made the Half step out of his comfort area ...... The Half realizes that the Full made an error that was not his fault, and he makes another step backward.. But the Half quickly gets angry and begins to take a bigger, more aggressive step.. They can't describe their hurt and are unsure of the reason. They could have saved their lives knowing that one half and the other is Full.
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There is no single conclusion to this essay but there are some actions items:
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1. Learn who you truly are
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2. Find out who is your partner
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3. Realize that there's a significant difference.
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3. Respect this distinction!
Actually, there is a conclusion: Live and let live.

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