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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha blogs about the world of venture capital. Rami is the co-founder and CEO of Sosa.
It's a big problem when people don't understand. It can be a minefield and is entirely our fault. It's a matter of seconds after the first interaction with someone and culminates in an incredible explosion...
Our greatest mistake is when we believe that there is complete agreement in our expectations but never bother to understand our partner's expectations. We are almost always fully in agreement with our partner except for one aspect : he doesn’t take advantage of the opportunity to increase the gap in expectations . We don't even need anyone to alert us of the upcoming conflict.
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There are many causes of miscommunications. They are usually related to our personal personas. People who are square are more likely to miscommunicate frequently with liberal personalities. People who are aggressive may struggle to align their expectations with passive people. But this is easy to identify - we all recognize squared from liberal and aggressive from passive.
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But what if they are completely different? Imagine if there's a gap in personality. No one has ever detected it, warned others about it, investigated it...NOT REFUSE! !
Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen the new type of personality we have in common The FULL-CIRCLE personality and those from the HALF circle! !
It is a behavioral guide. After reading the analysis below attempt to determine which type of personality most accurately describes you. Also, try to identify your partner in life. If you realize that you are of different types - as the Bono song says "we are all one, but we're not the same" If you do, then be thrilled because you may have just discovered the root-cause for some of your differences! If, on the other hand you're of the same type, then I am sorry to say that I am unable to help you figure out why you have relationships that appear to be so terrible.
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And here we go...
Two distinct groups of people can be classified as being human. Some of us can be split into two groups: some are self-contained, and others feel totally at ease in their own space. He's in need of a partner. Absolutely! all true! ... But, he can survive without the perfect partner until he gets it. If he can find the right person then he'll be able to continue his life with his full circle of companions.
The other side of humanity is made up of "half-a-circle" kinds - (no it's not full circles that got damaged during the delivery) (see below) ... It's true they are in need of partners They want an ally desperately, indeed, they are always in a constant searching, even religious, for a partner... and , yes, it's on the same scale for national security that they find their perfect partner since they can't live without one. Once they've found the miserable creature, they won't let go of it. To form a happy circle, they will try to integrate their victim physically. The Halves aren't willing to give up anything less than staring at each other from a zero distance for the rest of their lives. Only intimate relationships fulfill their desire to be connected to one another and create a whole.
Interesting observation between these two types: the decision to let a relationship go. Someone who is no longer chemistry-wise within the circle will be let go naturally by the whole circle. The half-circle's on the other hand will redefine the concept of 'having chemistry' with their partners to be: 'I'm holding onto this B..ST..RD. Until I can replace him properly'.
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Imagine to yourself the unbelievable dance happening in the moment two people, a "half-a-circle" and an "full-circle" are trying to make one each other his partner, not being conscious of their distinct geometries: the Half joyfully takes two steps forward far beyond the comfort zone of the Full who considers this unwelcome invasion to his personal zone a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The only issue is that he pushed the Half out of his comfortable zone .... The Half is certain that the Full made an innocent mistake and promptly compensates with another step forward, the Full starts to get angry and take a further, more significant step in the opposite direction.. The Half starts to think that there is nothing innocent about what's going on here and his next step is not at all gentle.. The Full.. The Half.. the Half and the Full are pissed of off each other. They cannot explain their pain and have no idea why. It would be a lot easier for them to live if they knew the difference between the half and full.
While this piece is not intended to be a comprehensive list of guidelines, there are actions you can follow.
1. Find out more about who are
2. Find out who is your partner
3. Be aware of the difference.
3. Respect differences!
Rami Beracha
Let's just say that there is only one conclusion Let's live and let go.

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