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Venture Capital, Thoughts and Much Less - Rami Beracha


This blog is written by Rami Beracha on the venture capital world. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.
Communication is one of the biggest issues. It's a hazard we've have created. It's a matter of seconds after the first encounter with someone, and ends with an impressive explosion...
Our greatest mistake is that we assume total alignment in each other's expectations, without ever trying to understand the expectations of our partner. We're usually in total alignment with our partner , with the exception of one aspect that he does not overlook the chance to increase the gap in expectations . There is no one to warn us about the coming conflict.
There are a myriad of factors that can lead to miscommunications. Individuals with squares are likely to be misinformed by those who are liberal, while individuals who are aggressive will have a hard time aligning expectations with those of passive people. But this is easy to recognize - we know that liberal is squared, and aggressive from passive.
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They may not even realize they're different. It is possible that there exists an individual gap in personality that we aren't aware of. It's not something any person has ever investigated or even traced. !
I'd like to introduce you, gentlemen and ladies an entirely new kind of personality we have in common The FULL-CIRCLE personality and people who belong to the HALF circle! !
Note : This is a the guidance for your behavior. After reading the following analysis, try and discover which persona best represents your personality. Also look for the person who your partner in real life. You may be surprised discover that your personalities differ. Like Bono said, "we are one, but we are not exactly the same." This is a great sign as it could indicate that you've found the root cause of of your divergences. If you're of the same type as me, then I'm sorry, but I can't help you understand why your relationships seem so bad.
Now we are...
There are two types of human beings that are called humans. Some of us can be divided into two groups one of which is self-contained and others feel totally at home alone. Yes, he does need an accomplice. Absolutely! It's all true! ... BUT, until he has found the perfect partner, he will be able to live without one. Once he's found one, he wishes to continue living his life, shoulder to shoulder with his - hopefully full circle - partner.
The "half-a circle" kind is the opposite aspect of humankind. (No it's not a the full-circle type that was damaged in the delivery). Once they find the miserable creature and they are unable to ever let it go! They will attempt to live with the victim as if were one of them, and refuse to give up the idea of living in harmony. The Halves aren't going to compromise their love for each other. They will stare at each other in the same way from a distance for the rest. It is impossible for them to feel more intimate than that.
One of the most fascinating observations between kinds is the way they choose to leave their partner. The full circle will naturally be able to let go of a partner he lost the chemistry of. The 'half-a circle' type , however, will redefine the meaning of having the same chemistry as their partners. They will say that they are 'holding on to this B..ST..RD until they can replace him with an version.
Imagine the dance where two half-circles and a complete circle are trying to please their partner. However, the Half can move two steps ahead of the safety zone. The sudden invasion of his personal space is somewhat scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he made the Half move out of his comfort area ...... The Half realizes that the Full has made an innocent mistake, so the Half takes a second step backwards.. However, the Half is soon upset and starts to make a bigger, more aggressive step.. They understand why, but due to lack of proper terminology, they cannot properly explain their plight and turn to the wrong places! If they only knew that one half is Half and the other one is Full, it could have helped them ...
Although there isn't a single solution, there are a few options you could adopt.
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1. Discover who you really are.
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2. Find out about your partner
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3. Know the difference.
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3. Respect that distinction!
One conclusion could be drawn: Live and let live.

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