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Venture Capital. Thoughts and Much Less. - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha's blog on the venture capital market. Rami Beracha co-founded Sosa.
Communication issues are a major issue. I'd venture to say that it's kind of a minefield that we have created .. It starts just seconds after our first interaction with someone and concludes with an amazing explosion...
Our greatest mistake is when we believe that there is complete alignment in each other's expectations, without ever trying to comprehend our partner's expectations. There's one aspect, however, that we are in complete alignment with our partner on the other hand - he never misses an opportunity to widen the gap in expectations. .... We have not been notified by anyone.
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There are many causes of communication issues, but they are generally caused by our personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to avoid communicating with those who are liberal. People who are aggressive will struggle to align their expectations with those of passive personalities. However, this is not difficult to identify - we all know that liberal is squared, and aggressive from passive.
What if they're totally different? Imagine the personality gap. No one has ever discovered it or warned about it, nor investigated it. !
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Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen to a new type personality we all have The FULL CIRCLE personality in contrast to the half-circular personalities. !
Note: A behavioral guideline as you read the next analysis, look for which personality most accurately describes you as well as attempt to determine the person who your life partner is. If you find that you are of different kinds - as Bono sings "we are all one, but we're different" If you do, then be thrilled because you might have discovered the reason behind some of your differences! If you're not the type you're looking for, I'm sorry I can not assist you in understanding the reasons your relationships look like crap.
And here we take a look...
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We humans are divided into two groups. There are those who are "full-circle" types who are self-contained and is completely comfortable alone. Sure, he requires partners, yes, that he would like to have a partner and yes he is in perpetual search of an ideal partner. Absolutely! Absolutely! ... However, until he's found his ideal partner, he CAN survive without one. He wants to spend his entire life with his love and is determined to make it to the end of his circle.
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The "half-a circle" kind is the opposite side of humanity. (No, it's not the full-circle type that was damaged in the delivery). They will not let go after they've found their miserable partner. In order to make one joyful circle, they will be able to almost join their victims... however, don't let them do this thing of living side by side! They won't compromise on being able to stare at each others for the rest of their lives. It's impossible for them to feel more intimate than that.
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A fascinating observation between the different types is how they decide to leave their companion. If a partner has lost chemistry with the whole circle will be let go in a natural way by the entire circle. The half-circle's on the other hand will redefine the idea of having the same chemistry' as their partners to be: 'I'm holding onto this B..ST..RD. Until I can replace him properly'.
Imagine the dance where the half-circle and the full circle try to please their partner. However, the half is able to move two steps ahead of the safety zone. The sudden invasion of the privacy of his own is a bit daunting. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The only issue is taking the Half out of his comfortable zone .... the Half is sure that the Full made an innocent mistake and kindly compensate with another step forward, the Full starts to get angry and make another, bigger step to the back.. The Half begins to suspect that there's something wrong about what's going on here and his next step isn't exactly gentle.. The Full.. The Half.. The Half and the Full both are angry at one another. The Full and the Half know why but lack proper terminology. They're unable to adequately explain their anguish so they look for the wrong things. It could have saved their lives if they knew the difference between Half and Full.
While this article isn't intended to provide a complete guideline, there are some steps you can take.
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1. Discover who you really are
2. Find out who your partner is
3. Be aware of the difference.
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3. Respect different opinions!
One of the conclusions is to live and let life.

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