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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha blogs about the venture capital world. Rami Beracha is the co-founder of Sosa.
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The issue of miscommunication is very significant. It can be a minefield and is entirely our mistake. It starts just a second after coming into contact with another person, and ends with an amazing explosion...
The biggest mistake we make is to assume complete alignment in each other's expectations and do not even try to comprehend our partner's expectations. One thing we can be sure of that our partner doesn't miss any chance to widen this gap . We have not been notified by anyone.
There are many potential causes of miscommunications. The majority of them are caused by differences in our personalities. Square personalities are more likely to miscommunicate more than liberal people, while individuals who are aggressive may have trouble aligning their expectations with the expectations of passive people. This is easy to spot as we all know what squared means.
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What if they're very different? They'll never realize that. Imagine that there's a type of personality gap that exists but that is not even noticed by us. It is not something that anyone has investigated, warned of, or identified. !
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Ladies and gentlemen! I'd like to introduce you to a brand-new personality type that we all share. The FULL CIRCLE personalities are different from the HALF CLIRCLE personalities. !
Note: This analysis provides guidelines for behavior. Try to figure which personality best describes what you're like Then, try to discover the person who is your partner. If you realize that you're different types - like Bono says, "we can be one but not exactly the same" If you do, then you ought to be very content as you may have identified the root-cause behind many of your differences. If you're the opposite type I'm sorry to help you comprehend why your relationships appear like a mess.
We are now...
Two distinct groups of people can be described as human. There are two types of human beings one of which is the "full circle" type, who is totally self-contained and feels completely at ease being alone. He needs a partner. Absolutely! It's all true! ... But, he can survive without a dream partner until he does. He will live his life side by side with his partner until he finds one.
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The "half a circle" individuals on the opposite side are those who need an accomplice. They will not let go after they've found their miserable lover. They'll attempt to live with their victim as if were one of them and refuse to give up the idea of living in harmony. The Halves will not relinquish their desire to gaze at each at each other from a distance of zero for the rest. Only intimate relationships satisfy their need to connect with one another and form one whole.
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Interesting observation between the two types: the choice to let a relationship go. A partner who is no longer chemistry-wise with the full circle will be released naturally by the whole circle. Half-a-circle types will, however redefine the term 'having mutual in chemistry with their partners means - 'I'm still holding onto this B..ST..RD until I am able replace them with an appropriate upgrade'.
Imagine a dance where the half-circle and the full circle try to please their partner. But, the half is able to move two steps ahead of the comfort zone. The unexpected intrusion into his personal space is somewhat scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The only issue is taking the Half out of his comfortable zone. Once .... The Half is sure that the Full was making an innocent mistake. When he take a step to make up for it with a step forward. The Full starts to get angry and takes a bigger step backward.. the Half begins to realize that there's something wrong regarding what's happening here and his next step isn't exactly gentle.. the Full.. The Half.. The Half and the Full both are angry at one another. They don't know why, but they aren't using the correct terms and are unable to explain the situation. So they go to the wrong places. They could have saved their lives by knowing that one half and the other is Full.
While there's no one solution, there are actions you can do.
1. Find out who you are.
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2. Find out about your partner
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3. Be aware of the difference.
3. Respect that distinction!
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One conclusion can be drawn"Live and let live.

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