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Venture Capital, Thoughts and Much Less - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha blogs about the venture capital world. Rami is Co-Founder of Sosa.
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It's a big problem when people don't understand. I'd say it's kind of a minefield that we created .. It starts seconds after making contact and then ends with an incredible explosion...
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We make the biggest error of thinking we're in complete alignment with the expectations of our partners. There is however one thing that we almost always can agree on: he does not ignore the chance ....to increase the expectations gap No one is there to warn us of the imminent conflict.
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There are many reasons behind miscommunications. They are usually related to our personalities. The squared personality is more likely than liberal individuals to be misinformed, while aggressive personalities might have trouble in coordinating expectations with passive. This is easy to identify because We all know what the word "squared" signifies.
What happens if they're totally different? They'll never recognize it. There is a personality gap between them however, we aren't aware about it. Nobody has ever traced it, warned about it, investigated it...NOT even been frightened! !
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Let me introduce to you, ladies and gentlemen, a new type if personality that we all share The FULL-CIRCLE personality and those from the half circle! !
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It is a behavioral guide. If you go through the following article Try to figure out which type of personality best describes you. Also, try to find out who your partner is in life. You may be surprised to find that your personalities are different. As Bono said, "we are one, but we are not the exact identical." It's a great sign as it could indicate that you've discovered the cause of of your divergences. If however, you're both of the same kind, then I'm sorry that I'm unable to tell you the reason why your relationships appear so terrible.
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So here we are...
Two kinds of human beings are there. There are those who are 'full-circle' types who are self-contained and finds it easy to be alone. He needs a partner. Absolutely! all true! ... It is possible to live without his ideal partner. If he can find the right person, he will be able to continue his life with his full circle of companions.
Half-circle people constitute the remaining half of humankind. They are not going to let go of their miserable animal once they find it. In order to make one happy circle, they nearly join with their victim... however, don't allow them to do this bullshit of living together! The Halves will not give up anything less than staring one at the other from a zero distance for the rest of their lives. They won't accept something less intimate to fulfill their desire to join with the other half and create a whole.
A fascinating observation between the types is how they decide to leave their partner. The whole circle tends to be quick to let go of the partner with whom they've lost chemistry. The half-circle type will however redefine the meaning of having mutual chemistry with their partners. They'll claim that they're holding on to this B..ST..RD until they are able to replace him with a better upgraded version.
Imagine to yourself the unbelievable dance taking place in the moment two people, a "half-a-circle" and a "full-circle" attempt to be the other's partner, but not aware of their different geometries. The Half moves two steps ahead, way past the comfort zone of the Full who finds this sudden entry of his personal space little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfortable zone . Even though the Half thinks that the Full was innocent and made a mistake, and graciously compensated by taking another step forward, the Half gets more concerned and begins to get angry. They understand why, but because they don't have the right terminology they can't adequately explain their madness and turn to the wrong directions. If only they knew that one half is half and the other is Full it could have helped them ...
There isn't a single conclusion to this essay but there are some action items:
1. Find out more about who you are
2. Find out who your partner is
3. There is a distinction.
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3. Respect different opinions!
Let's say there's only one conclusion Let's live and let go.

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