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Venture Capital, Thoughts and Much Less - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha writes about the world of venture capital. Rami Beracha is co-founder of Sosa.
Communication is a huge issue. It is a minefield of our own making. It starts just seconds after our first contact with someone and culminates in an incredible explosion...
Our biggest mistake is almost always believing that there is complete alignment in expectations on both sides. We don't attempt to get inside the thoughts of our partner to figure out his expectations. One thing is for certain that our partner will not miss an opportunity to increase this expectation gap . We have not been notified by anyone.
Rami Beracha
There are many sources of communication issues, but they are generally caused by our personalities. Square people are more likely to miscommunicate more than liberal people, while people who are aggressive might have trouble matching their expectations to the expectations of passive people. This is easy to see - squared can be distinguished from liberals, and aggressive can be distinguished from passive.
What is the likelihood that they're so different and they don't recognize it. It is possible that there exists a gap in their personalities that we do not know about. No one has ever detected it or warned anyone else about it, or investigated it...NOT FREUD! !
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Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduced you to a new kind of personality that is shared by all of us: the FULL CIRCLE versus the HALLF CIRCLE personalities! !
Rami Beracha
Note: A behavior guideline - when you read the coming analysis attempt to determine which one of the two personalities most accurately describes you and at the same time try to figure out who your partner in life is. If you discover you are distinct personalities - just like Bono says, "we can be one however we are not the same", - you should be very content as you may have identified the reason behind some of your differences. If, on the other hand you're similar to one another I'm sorry, but I can't help you understand why your relationships look like the same thing...
Here we are...
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Humans can be classified into two categories. There are two types of human beings one of which is the "full circle" type, who is totally self-contained and feels completely at ease in their own space. Sure, he's required to be around someone else, and he's looking for one. Absolutely! All true ... However, he will have to live without his dream partner until he gets it. When he has discovered one, he'd like to live the rest of his life by his side with his hopefully complete circle - of friends.
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Others are those who are "half-acircle" kinds. Once they have found the grumpy creature that they have found, they will not let go. They'll try to physically integrate their victim into a happy circle. The Halves will never compromise their affection for one another. They will gaze at each one another in the same manner from the distance for the remainder of the time. Nothing less intimate can fulfill their desire to be integrated with another half and create a whole.
Interesting observation between the two types: the decision to let a partner go. A partner who has lost chemistry with the full circle will be released naturally by the whole circle. The half-circle's on the other hand redefine the idea of having the same chemistry' as their partners to mean: 'I'm holding the B..ST..RD. Until I can replace him correctly'.
Imagine to yourself the unbelievable dance happening in the moment two people, a "half-a-circle" and the "full-circle" are trying to make one each other their partner, without being aware of their different geometries: the Half joyfully makes two steps forward, way past the comfort zone of the Full, who finds this sudden entry into his own personal space a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He forced the Half out of his comfort zone . Even though the Half thinks that the Full was innocent and made a mistake, and kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half becomes more worried and starts to get angry. They don't know why but they aren't using the correct terminology and can't explain the situation. Therefore, they head to the wrong areas. They could have escaped by knowing the difference between Full and Half.
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The essay is not able to provide a conclusive conclusion. However, it does contain some actions.
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1. Learn who you truly are
2. Learn about your partner
3. Be aware of the difference.
3. Respect that different!
Rami Beracha
One conclusion is"Live and let live.

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