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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha created this blog to explore the business of venture capital. Rami is the Co-Founder of Sosa.
Miscommunication is a big issue. It's a minefield we created. It begins within a few seconds after coming into contact with a person and then ends with an astonishing explosion...
The biggest error we make is that, without reason whatsoever, we nearly always presume that there is a complete alignment in the expectations of both parties without trying to pick our partner's brain in order to figure out what his expectations from us. There's one thing, however, which we are in total accord with our partner in - he also doesn't miss an opportunity to widen the gap between expectations. .... We don't require anyone to alert us of the imminent conflict.
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There are many reasons for communication issues, and the majority of them have to do with our personalities. Square people are more likely to miscommunicate more than liberal people, while people who are aggressive might have trouble in coordinating their expectations with the expectations of passive people. This is easy to spot: We all know what the word "squared" signifies.
Imagine if they were very different? It is possible that there exists a gap in personality between them that exists however, we aren't aware about it. This isn't something anybody has researched, warned of, or traced. !
Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduce you to a brand new kind of personality that is shared by all of us: the FULL CIRCLE versus the HALLF CIRCLE types! !
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Note – This is behavior guidance. After you have read the analysis, you should try to discover which personality best describes your personality. Also you should determine who your partner in real life is. If you discover that you are of two distinct kinds, as Bono says "we're one but we're not alike" If you do, then you ought to feel happy. You might have discovered the root-cause of many of the differences between you! If, however, you are identical in your appearance I'm sorry to say that I can't help but to explain the reason why your relationships appear so horrible.
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And here we begin...
Humans are split into two categories. Certain of us are "full-circle" type which is a person who feels totally natural to be completely by themselves. Yes, he needs partners, yes, that he would like to have a partner and yes, he's on a continuous search of a partner. Absolutely! All true ... However, he'll never be able survive without the right partner. Once he has found the right one then he'll be able to continue his life with his full circle of friends.
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Half-a-circle people make up the other half of the human race. Once they have found the awful creature that they have found, they won't give up! They will move to almost physically join their victim in order to form one joyful circle... and don't give them this bullshit of living shoulder-to-shoulder! The Halves won't accept anything less than looking at each other from a distance of zero distance for the rest. Only intimacy can fill their need for connection with each other and make a whole.
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An interesting observation between the two types relates to the decision to leave an individual partner. The entire circle will surely get rid of a partner that has lost their chemistry quickly. On the other hand, half-circle types redefine the concept of chemistry between couples to mean - "I am holding onto this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him with a new upgrade."
Imagine to yourself the unbelievable dance taking place when two "half-a-circle" and a "full-circle" attempt to impress the other's partner, but not aware of their differing geometries: the Half joyfully makes two steps forward, way past the comfort zone of the Full who find this unexpected invasion to his personal zone a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfort zone . Although the Half believes that the Full was innocent and made a error, and kindly compensated by making another step ahead, the Half is more worried and starts to feel irritated. They are aware of the reason, but due to the lack of proper language, they cannot properly explain their agony and they turn to the wrong direction! They could have saved their own lives by knowing that one is Half and one is Full.
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There is no single conclusion to this essay but there are some action items:
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1. Find out who you are as a person.
2. Discover who is your true partner is
3. Realize that there is a huge difference.
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3. Respect this difference!
One of the conclusions is to live and enjoy life.

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