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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha blogs about the world of venture capital. Rami is also Co-Founder of Sosa.
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Communication issues are a major problem. It's almost like a minefield. It begins just a second after coming into contact with another person, and ends with an astonishing explosion...
We make the biggest error of believing that we are fully aligned with our partners' expectations. We're usually completely in sync with our counterpart, minus one thing : he doesn’t miss an opportunity to expand this gap . And there is no one in the world who can warn us of the imminent confrontation.
There are a myriad of causes that can cause confusion. Square people are more likely to miscommunicate than liberal individuals, and individuals who are aggressive may have trouble in coordinating their expectations with those of passive personalities. However, this is not difficult to spot - we know squared from liberal, and aggressive from passive.
What do you think if they're very different and they don't realize that. There an in-between between them that exists however, we aren't aware about it. No one has ever discovered it or warned about it, investigated it...NOT even EVER FREUD! !
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Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen, to the new type of personality that we all share the FULL CIRCLE characters in contrast to the half-circular personalities. !
Note - This analysis is designed to give you guidance on your behavior. As you read this analysis, you will be able identify which personality describes you best. It is also possible to determine your partner in the life. If you find that you're different kinds - as Bono sings "we are all one, but we are not the same" If you do, then be thrilled because you may have found the root-cause for some of your differences! If you're the opposite type, I'm sorry I can not help you understand the reasons why your relationships look like a mess.
We are now...
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Humans are split into two. Some people are 'full-circle' who are a self-contained person who is completely at home all by his own. It's true that he wants to be with someone and he's seeking one. Absolutely! It's all true! ... However, he will have to live without the perfect partner until he does. He will continue to live his life with his new partner once the time comes to find one.
The "half of a circle" individuals on the opposite side have a partner. When they find the miserable creature that they have found, they will not let go. To create a happy circle, they'll attempt to join their victim physically. They'll not be compromising on being in a position to gaze at one other for the rest their lives. Anything less intimate will give them the desire to connect with another half and create a whole.
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A fascinating observation about the two types: the decision to let go of a partner. The full circle will typically be able to let go of an individual he no longer has chemistry with. Half-a-circle types will, however, redefine what 'having mutually in chemistry with their partners' to mean - 'im keeping this B..ST..RD until I can safely replace them with an appropriate upgrade'.
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Imagine a dance where the half-circle and the full circle try to make their partner feel happy. But, the Half can move two steps ahead of the comfortable zone. The sudden invasion of his personal space is slightly intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He pushed the Half out of his comfort zone . While the Half thinks that the Full made an innocent error, and kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half gets more concerned and begins to feel irritated. They are aware of the reason, but due to lack of proper terminology and the inability to properly describe their frustration and go to the wrong places! They could have saved themselves if they had known the distinction between Half and Full.
There is no single conclusion to this essay but there are some action items:
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1. Discover who you are.
2. Find out who your partner really is.
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3. There is a difference.
3. Respect this distinction!
Rami Beracha
actually, one conclusion that is true: Live and let live.

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