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Venture Capital, Thoughts and Much Less - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha is the blogger of this blog. This blog is all about venture capital. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.
Communication is a major problem. I would dare say that it's kind of a minefield that we have created .. It starts just seconds after our first contact with someone and culminates in an incredible explosion...
Rami Beracha
Our biggest mistake is that, for no reason whatsoever, we nearly always assume complete alignment in both sides' expectations without trying to discern our partner's brain to determine what his expectations from us. However, there is one thing that we nearly always can agree on: he does not ignore the chance ....to widen the expectation gap No one is there to warn us about the upcoming conflict.
There are many potential causes of miscommunications. Many of them stem from the differences in our personalities. Individuals with squares are likely to be misinformed by people of a liberal mindset, and people who are aggressive may have a hard time aligning expectations with those of passive people. This is evident - squared can be distinguished from liberals, and aggressive is a distinct thing from passive.
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What if they're totally different? Imagine the personality gap. It is not something that anyone has investigated or warned about, nor identified. !
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Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen the new type of personality that we share: the FULL-CIRCLE personality versus people who belong to the HALF circle! !
Note: A behavior guideline when reading the following analysis, try to figure out which one of the two personalities most accurately describes you and at the same time try to figure out who your partner in life is. If you find that you are of different kinds - as Bono sings "we are one but we're different" You should be very happy because you might have discovered the cause of some of your differences! If you're of the same type like me, I'm sorry, but I'm not able to assist you in understanding why your relationships appear to be awfully terrible.
Here we are...
Humans can be classified into two categories. A few of us fall under the "full-circle" category which refers to a person that can be completely independent and doesn't feel that the need for to have a partner. He does need a partner, yes he wants a partner, and yes, he's on a perpetual search of a partner. Absolutely! It's all true! ... But, he won't be able survive without a suitable partner. He will continue to live his life with his partner until he finds one.
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The "half a circle" people on the other side have to find a companion. They will not let go after they have found their miserable companion. To form a happy circle, they almost integrate with their victims... But don't let them do this absurdity of living together! They'll not be compromising on being able to stare at each others for the rest of their lives. Anything less intimate will give them the desire to connect with one another and form a whole.
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An interesting distinction between the two types relates to the decision to let go of an individual partner. The whole circle will typically be the first to let go of a companion who has lost his chemistry quickly. Half-circles, however, redefine what 'having mutually chemistry with their partner is referring to - 'I'm holding on to this B..ST..RD until I am able replace them with an appropriate upgrade'.
Rami Beracha
Imagine the fantastic dance that occurs when a "half" and "full" circle try to force each other to become their partners. They're not aware of their differences. The Half makes two leaps forward, far beyond the comfort space of the Full who finds the abrupt invasion of his personal space a little too scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he made the Half move out of his comfort area ...... The Half is aware that the Full was making an innocent error, so he makes another step backward.. But the Half is soon upset and starts to make a bigger, more aggressive step.. They can't describe their hurt and don't know why. It would be a lot easier for them to live if they knew the difference between the half and full.
There isn't any single conclusion, there are a few steps you can adopt.
1. Discover who you really are
2. Find out who you are with
3. There is a distinction.
3. Respect the difference!
Let's say there's only one conclusion Live and let be.

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