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Venture Capital. Thoughts and Much Less. - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha is the writer for this blog. It's all about venture capital. Rami is the co-founder and CEO at Sosa.
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The issue of miscommunication is very serious. It's a minefield that we've made. It starts a second after the initial contact is made with another person, and concludes with a massive explosion...
The biggest error we make is to assume that we're in complete alignment in our expectations for each other without trying to figure out what our partner's expectations are of us. One thing we do agree on is that our counterpart does not miss the chance to expand this expectation gap ..... There isn't anyone in the world who can warn us of the imminent clash.
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There are many possible sources of miscommunications. Most are due to differences in our personalities. Squared personalities are likely to be misinformed by people of a liberal mindset, and aggressive personalities will find it difficult to reconcile expectations with passive ones. This is easy to recognize as everyone can tell that they are squared from the liberal, and passive from the aggressive.
What is the likelihood that they're so different, but they do not realize that. Imagine if there's a gap in personality. It is not something that anyone has investigated or even discovered. !
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Ladies and gentlemen let me introduce you to an entirely different kind of personality The FULL and Half Circle personalities! !
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Note - A behavioral guidance when reading the following analysis, attempt to determine which of the two personalities define you the best, and at the same time attempt to determine who your partner in life is. If you realize that you're different kinds - as Bono song says "we are all one, however we're different" - then you should be thrilled because you may have just discovered the root-cause for many of your differences! If you're of the opposite kind, I'm sorry I can not help you understand the reasons why your relationships look like a mess.
Here we are...
Humans are divided into two categories. Certain people are "full-circle" that is an independent person who feels completely at home all by himself. He does need a partner, yes that he would like to have a partner and yes, he's in constant search for an ideal partner. Absolutely! It's true! ... However, he'll never be able to live without the right companion. After he has found the person of his dreams, he wants to live his life shoulder-to-shoulder with his hopefully complete circle - partner.
The other side of humanity is made up of "half-a-circle" types - (no this isn't full circles that have been damaged during the delivery) (see below) ... Yes, they need partners and yes, they need to find a partner very badly, and indeed, they are always in a constant and almost religious search for a partner... and yes, it's as important in terms of national security to find their perfect partner since they just cannot survive without one. When they find the miserable animal, they DO NOT LET GO! To create a happy circle, they will almost integrate with the victim... But don't let them do this bullshit of living side by side! The Halves will not compromise on their desire to staring at each at each other from a distance that is zero for the rest. Nothing less intimate can give them the desire to connect with one another and form one whole.
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A striking difference between the two is the decision to let go a partner. The full circle will typically be able to let go of the person he has lost chemistry with. On the other hand the 'half-acircle' types will redefine the meaning of chemistry between partners to mean "I hold onto this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him with an upgrade."
Imagine a dance in which the half-circle and the full circle are trying to make their partner feel happy. However, the Half is able to make two steps to the left of the comfortable zone. The sudden invasion of his private space can be slightly intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he accomplished this by forcing the Half out of his comfortable zone . As the Half thinks that the Full committed an error of his own and then responded with a step forward the Half begins to become angry and makes a second step backwards.. The Half.. Half.. and the Half are both pissed off. They understand why, but because they don't have the correct terminology they can't adequately explain their rage and go towards the wrong direction. They could have saved themselves if they had known the difference between Full and Half.
While this article isn't intended to provide a complete guideline, there are some steps you could take.
1. Find out more about who you are
2. Learn who your partner is
3. Realize that there is a huge difference.
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3. Respect differences!
One thing to remember is to live and let life.

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