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Venture Capital and Thoughts, Much Less - Ramiberacha


This blog is written by Rami Beracha, a venture capitalist from the world. Rami is co-founder and CEO of Sosa.
It's a huge problem that people do not understand. It's a minefield that we've created. It begins a second after making the first contact with someone and ends with an impressive explosion...
Our biggest error is always believing that there is complete alignment in expectations from both sides. We don't want to read the thoughts of our partner to figure the expectations he has. One thing we can have in common is that our friend is not afraid to increase the gap in expectations ..... There's no one out there to alert us of the coming confrontation.
Rami Beracha
There are many potential causes of miscommunications. The majority of them are caused by personality differences. People with square personalities are more likely to miscommunicate frequently with liberal personalities. People who are aggressive may struggle to align their expectations with passive people. But this is easy to recognize - we recognize squared from liberal and aggressive from passive.
רמי ברכה
What if they were very different? Imagine to yourself that there exists a sort of a personality gap that exists but that we don't know about. Nobody has ever found it or been warned of or studied it. !
I'd like to introduce you, ladies and gentlemen, to a new type personality we all have the FULL CIRCLE characters versus those of the HALF-CIRCLE people. !
רמי ברכה
Note - A behavioral guidance - when you read the next analysis, attempt to determine which of the two personalities define you the best, as well as look for out which one of your friends is. If you find that you are of two different types, as Bono says "we're one , but we're not alike", then you should be content. You may have found the cause of some of the differences in your life! If you're not the type you're looking for, I'm sorry I can not help you understand why your relationships appear like crap.
רמי ברכה
Let's start...
There are two types of human beings that are called humans. There are two kinds of human beings: the 'full circle' kind, who is completely self-contained and completely comfortable in their own space. He does need a partner, yes there is a need for a partner and yes, he's on a perpetual search of a partner. Absolutely! It's true! ... However, he'll never be able to survive without the right partner. After he has found his dream partner He wants to spend his entire life with his - hopefully full circle of friends.
Half-a-circle people make up the remaining half of humankind. When they find the miserable creature, THEY do not let them go! They'll work to physically integrate their victim in a happy circle. The Halves aren't content with any less than gazing at one another from a distance. Only intimacy will satisfy their need to connect with each other and make one whole.
An interesting distinction between the two types relates to the decision to leave an individual partner. The entire circle would typically let go of a person with whom he has lost their chemistry rapidly. On the other hand, half-circle types redefine the concept of chemistry between couples to be - "I am holding on to this B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him with an upgrade."
Rami Beracha
Imagine the amazing dance that occurs between the "half-a circle" and the full circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he has stepped out of his comfortable zone .... and as the Half was convinced that the Full had made an innocent mistake, the Half begins getting frustrated and takes another step backward. They know the reason, but since they don't know the proper language, they aren't able to adequately explain their confusion and head to the wrong directions. They could have avoided their own misery in the event that they knew the difference between Full and Half.
There isn't a single answer to this essay. However, there are some actions items:
https://www.israelnationalnews.com/news/320133
1. Find out who you are.
2. Learn about your partner
3. There's a difference.
3. Respect this difference!
One conclusion is: Live and let life.

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