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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

This is the blog of Rami Beracha on the venture capital world. Rami is Co-Founder of Sosa.
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Miscommunication is a big problem. It is a minefield caused by us. It's a matter of seconds after the first interaction with someone and ends with an impressive explosion...
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The biggest error we make is always assuming complete alignment in expectations on both sides. We don't try to read our partner's thoughts to find the expectations he has. One thing is certain that our partner doesn't miss any chance to widen this gap . We don't even need anyone to warn us of the upcoming conflict.
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There are many causes of confusion, and they are usually due to our individual personalities. Squared personalities are more likely than liberal personalities to be misinformed, while people who are aggressive might have difficulties getting their expectations in line with passive. This is simple to spot and everyone is aware of squared from moderate and passive from aggressive.
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What if they were different? Imagine that there exists a sort of a personality gap that exists, but which we don't know about. It's never been discovered, reported on, or investigated by anyone. !
I'd like to introduce you, ladies and gentlemen, a new type if personality that we all share with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus people from the half circle! !
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Note : This is a the guidance for your behavior. After you have read the analysis, try and figure out which persona best represents your personality. At the same time look for the person who your partner in real life. If you discover that you are of two distinct kinds, as Bono says "we're two, but not alike", then you should be content. It is possible that you have discovered the cause of many of the differences in your life! If you're on the other side you're similar to one another and you're not sure why, I'm sorry to say that I'm not able to help you understand the reason why your relationships appear to be the same thing...
And here we begin...
We humans are divided into two groups. Some of us are the "full-circle" type who are self-contained and finds it easy to be by himself. Yes, he needs partners, yes, he wants a partner, and yes, he's on a perpetual search of a partner. Absolutely! It's all true ... But, he can survive without his dream partner until he finds one. He will continue to live his life with his partner until the time comes to find one.
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Others are the "half-acircle" kind of people. Once they've found the miserable animal, they DO NOT LET GO! They'll attempt to live with their victim as if were one of them and refuse to give up the concept of living together. The Halves will never sacrifice their affection for one another. They will gaze at each with the same gaze from the distance for the rest. Nothing less intimate can give them the desire to connect with the other half and create an entire.
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A striking difference between the two is the choice to let go a partner. The complete circle will usually let go quickly of a partner they have lost chemistry with. Half-circles, however redefine what having mutual having chemistry with their partner means - 'I'm holding on to this B..ST..RD until I am able replace them with a suitable upgrade'.
Imagine the amazing dance that occurs between a "half-a circle" and the full circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he did this by removing the Half of his comfortable zone . While the Half thinks that the Full committed an innocent mistake and took another step forward, the Half begins to become annoyed and take a step backward.. The Half.. Half.. and the Half are both a bit off. Both understand why, but aren't using the correct language. They can't properly explain their frustration, and so they search for the wrong thing. They could have saved their own lives knowing that one is Half and the other one is Full.
The essay is not able to provide a conclusive conclusion. However it does include some action items.
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1. Discover who you really are
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2. Find out more about your partner
3. Make the distinction.
3. Respect this distinction!
In reality, one conclusion is that is true: Live and let live.

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