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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha's blog about the venture capital market. Rami is also Co-Founder at Sosa.
Miscommunication is a big problem. It's a minefield that we've made. It's a matter of moments after the first contact and ends with an astonishing explosion...
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The biggest error we make is that, for no good reason, we almost always assume complete alignment in the expectations of both parties without even trying to get our partner's brain to figure out what his expectations from us are. One thing which we are in total alignment with our partner on the other hand - he never misses an opportunity to expand this expectation gap .... We're not notified by anyone.
Rami Beracha
There are many causes of communication issues. They are usually related to our personal personality. Square personalities are more likely to communicate in a misguided manner more than liberal people, while individuals who are aggressive may have trouble matching their expectations to those of passive personalities. This is easy to see that squared personalities can be distinguished from liberals, and aggressive is a distinct thing from passive.
Imagine if they were different? Think about if there is a personality gap. It has not been found and has never been reported or investigated by anyone. !
I'd like to introduce you, ladies and gentlemen the new type of personality that we share with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus those from the HALF circle! !
Note: This study provides guidelines for behavior. Determine which personality best describes your personality Then, try to discover who your partner is. If you find that you're two different people - as Bono sings, "we can be one, but not the same" If you do, then you ought to be very happy as you may have identified the root-cause behind many of your differences. If you're the same as me, I'm sorry, but I'm not able to help you understand why your relationships are to be so bad.
Here we go...
We humans are divided into two categories. Certain of us are 'full-circle' types, a self-contained person that is completely comfortable alone. Sure, he requires partners, yes, that he would like to have a partner and yes, he's in constant search for a partner. Absolutely! 100% true! ... But, he can't live without his dream companion until he locates one. He will continue to live his life with the person he is going to marry once the time comes to find one.
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The "half of a circle" people on the other side need an accomplice. And once they have found the miserable animal, they DO NOT LET GO! They will move to almost physically integrate with their victim in order to form one joyful circle... and don't give them this bullshit of living shoulder to shoulder! The Halves will never sacrifice their affection for one another. They will look at each other in the same way from the distance for the remainder of the time. Nothing less intimate can satisfy their urge to integrate with the other half and create one whole.
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A notable distinction between these types is the decision to end a relationship. The complete circle will usually let go quickly of the person they've lost chemistry with. The 'half-a circle' type will however redefine the meaning of having the same chemistry as their partners. They'll say they are 'holding on to this B..ST..RD until they are able to replace him with a better upgrade.
Imagine the amazing dance between a "half-a circle" and a full-circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he did this by forcing the Half out of his comfort zone . While the Half believes that the Full made an error of his own and then compensated with another step forward the Half begins to become angry and makes a second step backwards.. The Full.. Half.. and the Half are all pissed off. They are unable to describe their hurt and don't know why. The victims could have been saved if they had known that the answer they're searching for is Half while the other is fully.
While there isn't any one answer, there are many actions that can be taken.
1. Learn who you truly are
2. Discover who is your real partner is.
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3. Realize there is a difference.
3. Respect this distinction!
One conclusion is: Live and let the life flow.

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