okay so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 1 month & 2 weeks , but we talked for about 6 months prior to us making it official. We've known each other about 5 years. When we were "just talking" , he would text me "goodmorning" faithfully everyday and he also made sure he checked on me throughout the day. We used to talk on the phone for hours at a time & when I did see him , he would be so sweet and hold me in his arms like nothihng could tear us apart right ? Unfortuantely , my ex was a fuckboy and I was scared in getting myself in another relationship. However , I decided to give him a chance. The first couple weeks it was good , he was treating me right , but then it got difficult for about 2 weeks because his phone wasn't working & as a result , we didn't talk as much as we wanted to . After those two weeks , I really wanted to see him , so I asked him to come over after practice . We spent the whole afternoon/evening together & I felt like we were back to ourselves again. That night , I texted him , but didn't get a response. I left him playing basketball with his bros , so I didn't really stress it .This was last Thursday. The next day , I texted him twice and called but he didn't answer again. Same thing Saturday morning . I figured something must be wrong , so I called one of our mutual friends and asked when was the last time they communicated . He told me Friday afernoon , a little before I called him and before that , Thursday night. So naturally , I felt a type way and hit him up about 3 more times throughout Saturday before he finally answered around 8:30. He told me to "chill" because he was at a tournament all day , but I responded and told him that he could've at least saud something. We texted a little bit after that , but it didn't last long. Naturally , I figured he was tired. Texted him Sunday , no answer. Monday morning , nothing , but I did get a response after I texted him again around 5 that afternoon . That convo was also short lived. Tuesday , I decided it was tyime to let him know I felt. So I texted him a paragraph in an as calm as possible tone , letting him know that I felt a type way about the fact that I can't even get a text back but he can text everyone else. Not mad , just feeling a type way. No response. Ended up going outside a little later , to find out he's playing ball with his bros like everything's tf okay . So that's when I decided that I was gon plant my little ass right outside the court on the bench and watch him play (to make him feel guilty of course). I stayed there for 2 hours until the game was done & you know what he did ? He gon have the nerve to come up to me and say " hey" with this goofy ass smile (that I love , unfortunately) like everything's tf okay . Like nigga no , it's not. So I left a short time later , didn't text him that night , or yesterday. This morning something told me to check his Instagram. Now I only lurk if I feel like something ain't right . I go on his page , and I find him telling some jawn first to text his phone , but since her phone was off , he told her to hit his kik ON THE SAME DAY I TEXTED HIM THE PARAGRAPH. So my petty ass commented "wow." And you know what he did ? He had the nerve to text my phone and be like " why you comment wow " . So I replied , "oh so now you wanna text back ? oh okay." & he said "nvm then." & that's when I really got heated and said "no it's not nevermind because you want to text everybody else but me and i'm your girl. did you really think I was gon be okay with that ?" He still has yet to answer. I'm telling you all this , because I really don't know what to do . I don't understand what , if anything , do wrong , and it's eating me up from the inside.
