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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha has created this blog to explore the subject of venture capital. Rami is the co-founder of Sosa.
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Communication is a major problem. It's almost like an open-air minefield. It begins one second after the initial interaction with another person, and concludes with a massive explosion...
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Our biggest mistake is that, with no good reason, we almost always assume complete alignment in both sides' expectations without trying to pick our partner's mind to determine what his expectations from us are. We are almost always completely in sync with our partner except for one aspect : he doesn’t overlook the chance to widen this expectation gap . We don't even need anyone to warn us of the coming conflict.
There are many causes of communication issues. They're usually due to our personality. Individuals with squares are likely to miscommunicate with those who are liberal, while individuals who are aggressive will have difficult to align expectations with passive ones. It is simple to recognize - squared can be distinguished from liberal, whereas aggressive is a distinct thing from passive.
What if they were totally different? Consider if there's a personality gap. There is no one who has noticed it or warned anyone else about it, investigated it...NOT FREUD! !
Ladies and gentlemen! Let me introduce you to a brand new personality kind that we all have in common. The FULL CIRCLE personalities differ from the half CLIRCLE characters. !
Note : This is a behavioral guide. When you read the analysis below, try to identify which type of personality most accurately describes you. Additionally, you should identify your partner in real life. If you find that you're two different people - as Bono sings, "we can be one, but not the same" If you do, then you ought to be extremely happy because you might have found the reason behind some of your differences. If, on one hand you're of similar to one another and you are not, I am sorry to say that I am unable to help you figure out the reason why your relationships look so bad.
Let's get started...
Two distinct groups of people can be classified as being human. Some of us are the "full-circle" types which is a person who is completely comfortable alone. Yes, he does need the support of a partner. Absolutely! It's all true! ... But, he won't be able to survive without a suitable partner. When he finds his ideal partner, he wants to live his life shoulder-to-shoulder with his hopefully complete circle - partner.
The other human side is made up of "half-a-circle" kinds that are (no this isn't full circles that have been damaged in the course of the delivery) The other side of humanity is comprised of the "half-a-circle" types ... Yes, they need an accomplice They want a partner badly, yes, they're constantly, almost religious, search for a new partner... and yes it's on the same scale in terms of national security to find their perfect partner since they can't survive without one. They are not going to let go of the miserable creature once they find it. To form the illusion of a happy circle, they will try to integrate their victim physically. The Halves do not want to compromise their desire to staring at each at each other from a distance of zero for the rest of their lives. Their desire to merge with their other half and make a complete unit can only be fulfilled by something less intimate.
The decision to let go is an everyday occurrence. The full circle is likely to release the partner with whom they've lost their chemistry. On the other hand, half-circles will redefine the meaning of chemistry between partners to be - "I am holding onto this B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him with a better version."
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Imagine the fantastic dance that happens when a "half" and "full" circle try to be their partner. They're not aware of their different perspectives. The Half takes two leaps forward, far away from the safety zone of his Full who finds the abrupt invasion of his personal space a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he took half of his comfortable zone .... and, while the Half was sure the Full was making an error that was innocent The Half starts to get frustrated and takes another step backward. The Half and the Full understand why, but aren't using the correct terminology. They're unable to adequately explain their feelings, so they search for the wrong thing. If they had known that one is a Half and the other is Full it could have helped them ...
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The essay is not able to provide a conclusive conclusion. However it does include some action items.
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1. Learn who you are
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2. Find out about your partner
3. Recognize the difference.
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3. Respect that different!
One conclusion could be drawn"Live and let live.

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