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Venture Capital, Thoughts and Much Less - Rami Beracha


This blog is written by Rami Beracha, a venture capitalist from the world. Rami is also co-founder at Sosa.
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Communication issues are a major problem. It's a danger that we have created. It starts just seconds after our first encounter with someone, and concludes with an amazing explosion...
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Our biggest mistake is that, for no reason whatsoever, we nearly always presume that there is a complete alignment in both sides' expectations without trying to pick our partner's mind to figure out what his expectations of us are. One thing which we are in total alignment with our partner on and he doesn't hesitate to miss an opportunity to expand this expectation gap .... There's no one to warn us about the upcoming clash.
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There are many causes of confusion. They usually are related to our personal personality. Square personalities are more likely to communicate in a misguided manner than liberal individuals, and people who are aggressive might have trouble aligning their expectations with those of passive personalities. It is simple to recognize as we all know what squared signifies.
Imagine if they were very different? It's possible that there exists a personality gap, which we aren't aware of. There is no one who has noticed it or warned anyone else about it, investigated it...NOT be a FRAUD! !
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Let me introduce you ladies and gentlemen to the new type of personality that we all have: the FULL CIRCLE personalities as opposed to the HALF-CIRCLE people. !
Note: This study provides guidelines for behavior. Try to figure the personality that best defines who you are Then, try to determine who your partner is. If you realize that you are of distinct types and you are not happy. It could be the reason for many of your differences. If however, you're identical in your appearance, then I'm sorry that I'm not able to provide a reason for the reason why your relationships appear so awful.
Here we begin...
There are two kinds of human beings: humans. There are two kinds of humans one of which is the "full circle" type, who is self-contained and is completely comfortable being by themselves. It is true that he may need an accomplice. Absolutely! Absolutely! ... But, until he's found the perfect partner, he can live without one. He will live his life in a relationship with the person he is going to marry once they find one.
The "half-a circle" type is the other face of the human race. (No it's not a the full-circle type that was damaged in the delivery). Once they have found the miserable animal and they are determined to keep it go. To create the illusion of a happy circle, they'll try to join their victim physically. The Halves will not compromise on anything less than staring one at the other from a distance of zero throughout their lives. It is impossible for them to be more intimate than that.
A striking distinction between these types is the decision to let go of a partner. The whole circle is likely to be able to let go of a person who is losing their connection quickly. The 'half-a circle' type will however redefine the meaning of having the same chemistry as their partners. They'll say they're holding on to this B..ST..RD until they are able to replace him with a more effective upgraded version.
Imagine a dance in which a half-a-circle and a full circle try to make their partner happy. However, the Half can move two steps ahead of the comfort zone. The sudden invasion of his private space can be slightly daunting. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. Problem is, he made the Half move out of his comfort zone ...... The Half realizes that the Full was making an innocent mistake, so he makes another step backward.. But the Half soon becomes upset and starts to make the same step.. They cannot explain their pain and don't know why. It would be a lot easier for them to live if they knew the difference between Half and Full.
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While there's no one conclusion, there are some steps you can adopt.
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1. Find out who you really are.
2. Find out who your real partner is
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3. Realize there is a difference.
3. Respect this difference!
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One conclusion is: Live and let live.

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