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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha blogs about the venture capital world. Rami is the Co-Founder of Sosa.
It's a big problem when people don't understand. I'd say it's kind of a minefield that we created .. It begins seconds after our first encounter with someone, and ends with an impressive explosion...
The biggest mistake we make is to assume complete co-operation in the expectations of our partners but never bother to understand our partner's expectations. One thing we can be sure of, however: our partner doesn't miss any opportunity to increase this expectation gap . We don't even need anyone to alert us of the upcoming conflict.
There are many sources of miscommunications and they are mostly related to our different personalities. Square personalities are more likely to avoid communicating with liberal personalities. Affirmative personalities may be unable to reconcile their expectations with those of passive personalities. This is easy to spot: we all know what squared is.
But, what if they are very different and they don't be aware of that. There is a chance that there exists a gap in their personalities that we do not know about. No one has ever discovered it or been warned of or studied it. !
Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen, to a new type personality we all share: the FULL CIRCLE personalities versus those of the HALF-CIRCLE individuals. !
Note - A behavioral guidance - when you read the following analysis, attempt to determine which personality most accurately describes you and at the same time try to figure out the person who your life partner is. If you discover that you're of two different types - as the Bono sings "we are all one, however we're different" - then you should be thrilled because you may have just discovered the reason behind many of your differences! If you're of the same type like me, I'm sorry to say that I'm unable to help with understanding why your relationships are to be so terrible.
Here we take a look...
There are two kinds of human beings: humans. There are two kinds of people one of which is the "full circle" type, who is self-contained and is completely comfortable in their own space. Sure, he requires a partner, yes there is a need for a partner and yes, he's on a perpetual search of a partner. Absolutely! It's all true! ... But, he won't be able to survive without the right companion. He will live his life in a relationship with his new partner once they find one.
רמי ברכה
Half-a-circle-shaped people comprise the other half of humankind. Once they've found the miserable animal that they have found, they will not let it go. They'll try to physically integrate their victim to create one happy circle. The Halves will not sacrifice anything other than starring one at the other from a zero distance for the rest of their lives. It is impossible for them to be more connected than that.
Rami Beracha
One interesting differentiator between these two types is the choice to let go of a partner. The whole circle tends to release a partner they have lost their chemistry. However, half-circles will alter the definition of chemistry between couples to be - "I am holding onto this B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him with an upgrade."
Rami Beracha
Imagine the amazing dance that occurs between a "half-a circle" and a full-circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He forced the Half out of his comfortable zone . Even though the Half believes that the Full made a error, and was kind enough to compensate by taking a second step forward, the Half gets more worried and starts to feel angry. They cannot describe their feelings and have no idea why. They could have saved their own lives knowing that one half and the other one is Full.
The essay is not able to provide a conclusive conclusion. However it does contain some action items.
רמי ברכה
1. Find out who you are.
2. Find out about your partner
רמי ברכה
3. Be aware of the difference.
Rami Beracha
3. Respect that distinction!
In reality, one conclusion is that is true: Live and let live.

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