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Venture Capital, Thoughts and Much Less - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha's blog on the venture capital market. Rami Beracha is co-founder of Sosa.
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The issue of miscommunication is serious. I would dare say that it's like a minefield that is our own creation .. It starts seconds after making contact and ends with an astonishing explosion...
Our biggest error is always believing that there is complete alignment in expectations from both sides. We don't try to get inside our partner's mind to find the expectations he has. We are almost always in total alignment with our partner , with the exception of one aspect that he does not take advantage of the opportunity to increase the gap in expectations . And we don't need anyone to alert us of the upcoming conflict.
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There are a variety of reasons for miscommunications and they are mostly due to our individual personalities. Square personalities are more likely not to communicate with those who are liberal. Aggressive personalities will be unable to reconcile their expectations with those of passive personalities. This isn't difficult to recognize - we know that liberal is squared, and aggressive from passive.
What if they were completely different? Imagine that there is a kind of a personality gap which exists but that is not even noticed by us. It's never been discovered or reported on or studied by anyone. !
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Ladies and gentlemen, I'd like to introduce you all to the different personality types: The FULL versus the half circle people! !
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Note: This study provides behavioral guidance. Find out the personality that best defines what you're like, and then try to find out what your relationship partner's personality is. If you find that you are of different types that you can be happy. This could be the cause of the differences you have. If you're the same like me, I'm sorry to say that I'm unable to help with understanding why your relationships are to be so bad.
Now we are...
Two groups of humans are referred to as human. There are those who are "full-circle' that is an independent person who is completely at home all by him. Sure, he requires a partner, yes that he would like to have a partner and yes he is in perpetual search of the right partner. Absolutely! It's all true ... But, he can't live without his dream partner until he locates one. And, once he has found the one he wants, he would like to live his life in a relationship with his - hopefully full circle - partner.
Half-a-circle-shaped people comprise the remaining half of humanity. Once they've found the grumpy creature, they won't let go of it. To create an encircling circle, they will try to make their victim feel more physically. The Halves don't want to sacrifice anything other than staring at each other from a distance of zero throughout their lives. Only intimacy will fill their need for connection with each other and make a whole.
One of the most fascinating observations between kinds is the way they choose to part ways with their companion. The whole circle is likely to let go of a partner that has lost their connection quickly. On the other hand half-circle types alter the definition of chemistry between couples to mean - "I am holding on to this B..ST..RD., until I am able to replace him with a better version."
Imagine the amazing dance that occurs between the "half-a circle" and a full-circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he has stepped out of his comfort zone .... and as the Half was certain that the Full made an innocent mistake and the Full was sure of it, the Half gets annoyed and makes another step in the opposite direction. Both know why but lack proper terminology. They aren't able to properly express their feelings, so they search for the wrong thing. They could have been spared by knowing that the one they are seeking is Half, while the other is fully.
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While there's no one solution, there are options you could adopt.
1. Find out who you are
2. Find out about your partner
3. There's a difference.
3. Respect that difference!
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In reality, there's only one conclusion.

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