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Venture Capital, Thoughts and Much Less - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha's blog about the venture capital market. Rami is also Co-Founder at Sosa.
Communication is a major problem. It's a minefield we created. It begins a second after making contact with someone, and ends with an amazing explosion...
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Our biggest mistake is almost always taking for granted that there is a complete alignment of expectations on both sides. We don't want to read our partner's thoughts to find out what his expectations are. One thing we can agree on is that our partner does not miss the chance to widen this gap ..... There's nobody to inform us of the upcoming clash.
There are many causes for miscommunications, and most of them stem from our personality. People who are squared are more likely than those with liberal personalities to miscommunicate, and people who are aggressive might have difficulties aligning expectations with passive. It is simple to identify and everyone is aware of squared from the liberal, and passive from the aggressive.
What is the likelihood that they're so different, only they cannot be aware of it. It is possible that there is an individual gap in personality that is not known about. Nobody has ever noticed it and warned others about it, investigated it...NOT FREUD! !
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Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduce you all to a different type of personality: The FULL versus the half circle people! !
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Note : This is a behavioral guidance. After you've read the analysis, you should try to discover which persona best represents your personality. In addition you should determine who your partner in real life is. If you realize that you're different types - like Bono sings, "we can be one, but not the same", - you should be very happy as you might have found the cause of many of your differences. If, on one hand you're similar to one another, then I am sorry but I cannot assist you in understanding why you have relationships that appear to be so terrible.
Now we are...
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Two distinct groups of people can be described as being human. There are two types of people: the 'full circle' type, who is totally self-contained and completely comfortable in their own space. Sure, he needs an accomplice. Absolutely! It's all true ... However, until he's found the perfect partner, he CAN survive without one. And, once he has found the one he wants, he would like to live the rest of his life shoulder to shoulder with his - hopefully full circle - of friends.
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The "half-a circle" kind is the opposite aspect of humankind. (No this isn't a full-circle that was damaged during the delivery). Once they've found the miserable animal, they do not let them go! They'll try to physically integrate with the victim in order to form a happy circle... and do not allow them to experience the dreadful reality of living shoulder to shoulder! The Halves aren't content with anything less than staring at one another from a distance for the rest. Their desire to become one with their spouse and make a complete unit can only be satisfied by things that aren't as intimate.
One interesting differentiator between these two types is the choice to let go a partner. The full circle will typically release themselves quickly from the person he has lost chemistry with. The half-circle's on the other hand will redefine the notion of having chemistry' with their partners to mean: 'I'm holding onto this B..ST..RD. Until I can replace him correctly'.
Imagine the amazing dance in which a "half circle" and a "full-circle" are trying to make each other, but without being aware of their different geometries. The Half smiles and takes two steps ahead. The Full is a bit frightened by this unwanted invasion slightly scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he accomplished this by removing the Half of his comfortable zone . When the Half thinks that the Full committed an error of his own and then compensated with another step forward the Half begins to become irritated and takes another step backwards.. The Full.. Half.. and the Half are both a bit off. Both understand why, but aren't using the correct language. They're unable to adequately explain their anguish so they look at the wrong things. They could have been spared if they had known that the one they are seeking is Half, while the other is fully.
There isn't a single conclusion to this essay , but there are a few action items:
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1. Learn who you are
2. Discover who is your partner really is.
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3. Make the distinction.
3. Respect the difference!
Let's say there is only one conclusion Let's live and let go.

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