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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

This is the blog of Rami Beracha about venture capital world. Rami is also the Co-Founder of Sosa.
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Communication is a major problem. It is a minefield caused by us. It is triggered a second after making contact with a person, and ends with an incredible explosion...
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The biggest error we make is that, without reason whatsoever, we nearly always assume complete alignment in the expectations of both sides without even trying to get our partner's brain to determine what his expectations from us are. We are almost always completely in sync with our partner except for one aspect : he doesn't overlook the chance to expand this gap . There is no one to tell us about the coming conflict.
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There are a variety of possible causes of miscommunications. The majority of them are caused by differences in our personalities. The squared personality is more likely than liberal individuals to communicate poorly, while people who are aggressive might have difficulties getting their expectations in line with passive. This is easy to recognize and everyone is aware of the difference between liberal and passive from aggressive.
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What if they are very different, but they do not recognize it. It is possible that there exists a gap in personality between them yet we do not know about it. No one has ever discovered it or been warned of or studied it. !
I'd like to introduce you, ladies and gentlemen to a new type personality we all share The FULL CIRCLE personality versus those of the HALF-CIRCLE people. !
Note: This study provides the ability to make better decisions about your behavior. Find out the personality that best defines your personality and then discover what your relationship partner's personality is. If you find that you're different kinds - as Bono sings "we are one but we're different" You should be extremely happy as you might have discovered the reason behind the differences between you! If you're not the type you're looking for I'm sorry that I could not assist you in understanding the reasons your relationships look like crap.
Here we are...
Humans are divided into two distinct groups. There are two kinds of people one of which is the "full circle" type, who is totally self-contained and is completely comfortable in their own space. Sure, he's required to be with someone and yes, he's always seeking one. Absolutely! All true ... But, he will not be able to live without his dream partner until he finds one. He is determined to spend his entire life with his beloved, and he is hopeful to be able to complete his circle.
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The "half-a circle" kind is the opposite side of humanity. (No it's not a full-circle , but it was damaged during the delivery). They'll never let go of the idea once they've found their miserable companion. To form a happy circle, they'll try to make their victim feel more physically. The Halves aren't content with any less than gazing at one another from zero distance. They won't accept anything less intimate to fulfill their desire to join with the other half and create a whole.
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A striking distinction between these types is the decision to let go of a partner. The full circle is likely to release themselves quickly from a partner he lost chemistry with. The half-circle types however, will redefine the definition of having chemistry mutually with their partner and say 'I'm holding on to this B..ST..RD, , until I am able to replace him with a proper upgrade'.
Imagine the amazing dance that occurs when a "half a-circle" and a "full-circle", are trying to create one another, and not even noticing their distinct geometries. The Half is smiling and moves two steps ahead. The Full finds the unwelcome intrusion slightly scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he made the Half step out of his comfort area ...... The Half is aware that the Full made an error that was not his fault, and the Half takes a second step backwards.. However, the Half soon becomes upset and takes the same step.. They can't describe their hurt and have no idea why. They could have saved their own lives by knowing that one is Half and one is Full.
Rami Beracha
While there's no one solution, there are some actions you can take.
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1. Discover who you are
2. Find out more about your partner
3. There is a distinction.
3. Respect this distinction!
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In reality, there's only one conclusion.

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