Notes

'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha writes about the world of venture capital. Rami is also co-founder at Sosa.
Rami Beracha
Communication is a major problem. It's almost like an open-air minefield. It begins one second after the first contact is made with someone and ends with a massive explosion...
The biggest error we make is that, without good reason, we almost always assume complete alignment in the expectations of both parties without even trying to get our partner's mind to determine what his expectations of us are. But there's one thing we can almost always are in agreement on: he won't miss the chance ....to widen the expectation gap. There isn't anyone out there to alert us of the coming conflict.
There are many potential causes of miscommunication. Many of them stem from personality differences. Square personalities are more likely not to communicate well with liberal people. Aggressive personalities may struggle to align their expectations with passive people. However, this is not difficult to spot - we know that liberal is squared, and aggressive from passive.
What is the likelihood that they're so different, but they do not realize that. Think of the personality gap. Nobody has ever noticed it or warned anyone else about it, or investigated it...NOT REFUSE! !
Let me introduce you, gentlemen and ladies the new type of personality that we share: the FULL-CIRCLE personality versus people from the HALF circle! !
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Note - A behavioral guidance as you read the coming analysis try to figure out which personality most accurately describes you as well as try to figure out who your partner in life is. If you discover that you are of distinct types - like Bono sings "we are all one, but we are different" - then you should be thrilled because you might have discovered the root-cause for some of your differences! If you're the opposite type I'm sorry to not help you understand why your relationships appear like a mess.
Here we are...
Two types of people are human. Certain of us are divided into two categories: some are self-contained, while others feel completely at home alone. Yes, he does need a partner. Absolutely! It's all true ... But, he can survive without the perfect partner until he gets it. Once he's found one, he wishes to live the rest of his life, by his side with his - hopefully full circle - partner.
The "half-a circle" type is the other face of the human race. (No it's not a full-circle that was damaged during the delivery). They are not going to let go of the savage creature after they have found it. They'll attempt to live with their victim as if they were one of them and not give up on the idea of living in harmony. The Halves will not compromise on anything less than staring at each other from a zero distance for the rest of their lives. Anything less intimate will fulfill their desire to be integrated with the other half and create a whole.
Interesting observation between these two typesof people: the choice to let a relationship go. The full circle will naturally let go relatively quickly from an individual he no longer has chemistry with. Half-circle people, however, redefine what 'having mutually having chemistry with their partner is referring to - 'I'm still holding onto this B..ST..RD until I can safely replace them with an appropriate upgrade'.
רמי ברכה
Imagine the amazing dance that occurs between the "half-a circle" and the full circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfort zone . Even though the Half believes that the Full made a error, and kindly compensated by making another step ahead, the Half is more worried and starts to feel angry. Both know why but lack proper language. They aren't able to properly express their anguish so they look for the wrong things. If only they knew that one is Half and the other is Full it could have saved them ...
Rami Beracha
There isn't a single conclusion to this essay but there are a few action items:
1. Discover who you really are
2. Find out more about your partner
3. Make the distinction.
3. Respect differences!
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One conclusion is: Live and let the life flow.

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