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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha blogs about the world of venture capital. Rami is the co-founder and CEO at Sosa.
The issue of miscommunication is serious. I would dare say that it's like a minefield that is our own creation .. It starts within a few seconds after coming into contact with another person and then ends with an astonishing explosion...
The biggest error we make is always taking for granted that there is a complete alignment of expectations from both sides. We don't attempt to pick out the thoughts of our partner to figure the expectations he has. One thing we do agree on is that our counterpart is not afraid to widen this gap ..... And we don't need anyone to warn us of the imminent conflict.
There are many sources of miscommunications and they are mostly caused by our personalities. The squared personality is more likely than liberal personalities to be misinformed, while individuals who are aggressive may have difficulty getting their expectations in line with passive. This isn't difficult to identify We all know the distinction between squared and liberal, and passive from active.
What if they're completely different? They'll never be aware of it. It is possible that there exists a personality gap, which we aren't aware of. It's not something anybody has researched, warned of, or discovered. !
I'd like to introduce you, gentlemen and ladies, a new type if personality that we all share with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus people from the HALF circle! !
Note - This is a behavioral guide. If you go through the following analysis, try to identify the personality that best describes you. Additionally, you should determine who your partner is in your life. If you realize that you're different types - as the Bono sings "we are all one, however we're different" You should be thrilled because you might have discovered the root-cause for some of your differences! If, on the other hand, you are similar to one another and you're not sure why, I'm sorry to say that I'm not able to help you understand the reason why your relationships appear to be nothing but shit...
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Here we are...
Two distinct groups of people are referred to as human. Some of us fall into the "full-circle" category that is a person who is totally independent and does not feel like the need for an accomplice. Yes, he needs to be with someone and he's in search of one. Absolutely! It is all true ... But, he can't live without his dream partner until he locates one. He is determined to share his life with his partner, and he is hopeful to be able to complete his circle.
The "half-a circle" type is the other face of the human race. (No it's not a full-circle , but it was damaged during the birth). They won't let go of the miserable creature when they discover it. They'll work to physically integrate their victim to create one happy circle. The Halves do not want to compromise their desire to stare at each one from a distance of zero for the rest. Their desire to be one with their partner and make a complete unit can only be fulfilled by things that aren't as intimate.
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One of the most fascinating observations between different types is how they decide to leave their partners. A partner who has lost their chemistry within the circle will be let go naturally by the whole circle. Half-a-circle types will, however redefine what having mutual in chemistry with their partners is referring to - 'I'm keeping this B..ST..RD until I can safely replace them with an appropriate upgrade'.
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Imagine the amazing dance that occurs between a "half-a circle" and a full-circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he did this by taking the Half out of his comfortable zone . When the Half believes that the Full has made an error of his own and then took another step forward, the Half begins to become angry and makes a second step backward.. The Full.. Half.. and the Half are both pissed off. The Full and the Half know why but lack proper terminology. They aren't able to properly express their feelings, so they search for the wrong things. They could have avoided their own misery by knowing the difference between Half and Full.
There isn't any single solution, there are a few steps you can take.
1. Discover who you are
2. Discover who is your partner really is.
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3. Be aware of the difference.
3. Respect the difference!
רמי ברכה
One conclusion is"Live and let live..

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