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Venture Capital. Thoughts and Much Less. - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha is the writer for this blog. This blog is all about venture capital. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.
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Communication is a major problem. I would dare say that it's kind of a minefield that we have created .. It starts a second after the first contact is made with another person, and concludes with an incredible explosion...
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Our biggest error is when we believe that there is complete alignment in each other's expectations but never bother to understand the expectations of our partner. One thing we can be sure of however: our partner will not miss an chance to widen this gap . And there is no one out there to alert us of the imminent confrontation.
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There are many causes of communication issues. They usually are related to our personality. People with square personalities are more likely to confuse liberal ones, and people who are aggressive may have difficult to align expectations with those of passive people. This is simple to spot - everyone knows the difference between liberal and passive from aggressive.
However, what do you think if they're very different, but they do not realize that. Consider the gap in personality. No one has ever detected it or warned anyone else about it, investigated it...NOT REFUSE! !
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Ladies and gentlemen, I'd like to present to you an entirely different kind of personality: The FULL versus the Half Circle people! !
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Note: A behavior guideline - when you read the following analysis, attempt to determine which of the two personalities most accurately describes you and also try to figure out which one of your friends is. If you realize that you are of distinct types, then you should be satisfied. This could be the reason for some of your differences. If you're in the same category like me, I'm sorry, but I'm not able to assist you in understanding why your relationships are awfully poor.
So here we are...
There are two types of human beings that are called humans. Some of us are the 'full-circle' types which is a person who is completely comfortable alone. Sure, he would like to be a part of a group and, the truth is, he's always seeking someone to share his life with. Absolutely! All true! ... But, he won't be able to live without a suitable partner. When he finds the right person, he will be able to live his life with his full circle partner.
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Half-circle people constitute the remaining half of humankind. Once they find the miserable creature, they will not let go! They will move to almost physically join their victim in order to form one joyful circle... and do not allow them to experience the dreadful reality of living shoulder-to-shoulder! They'll not be compromising on being able to stare at each others for the rest of their lives. Nothing less intimate will fulfill their desire to be integrated with the other half and create an entire.
The choice to let go is a common observation. The full circle will naturally be able to let go of a partner he lost chemistry with. Half-circles however they will redefine the concept of 'having mutual chemistry with their partner and say 'I'm keeping this B..ST..RD until I am able to replace him with a proper upgrade'.
Imagine a dance in which the half-circle and the full circle try to please their partner. But, the half is able to make two steps to the left of the safety zone. This unexpected invasion into his private space can be slightly daunting. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He pushed the Half out of his comfortable zone . While the Half thinks that the Full was innocent and made a error, and kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half becomes more concerned and begins to feel angry. They don't know why but they aren't using the correct terminology and can't explain it. So they go to the wrong areas. They could be a lot easier for them to live if they knew the difference between the Half and Full.
While there is no one conclusion, there are several ways to go about it.
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1. Learn more about who you are.
2. Find out who you are with
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3. Be aware that there's a significant distinction.
3. Respect this difference!
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One of the conclusions is to live and enjoy life.

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