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Hello. 27 female here looking for a switch/dominant partner to do a kind of slice-of-life role play. Sorry in advance for the wall of text.

The general idea is that I would play a single woman in her mid-30s living alone with her maid. There has always been rumors that she was a lesbian, after all, it was unusual for a woman of her status not to be married, but it was never confirmed. Her maid had been serving her since she had come of age, and consequently, her maid quickly became one of her closest confidants. Out of this friendship, a more intimate relationship developed. They soon became lovers, and then more when she admitted her desire to be dominated. So their relationship developed into one where publicly, she was a confident and independent woman, while privately she was submissive to her own maid, something that would surely ruin her reputation if it were ever revealed.

The general vibe is kind of pseudo-Victorian/refined upper class/slightly sexually conservative society, but I'm flexible on the details. Also, generally going for a more lighthearted/fun vibe than super serious/hardcore BDSM- the characters are close friends as well as lovers.
My kinks include bondage, humiliation, toys, oral, anal, D/s, collars, leashes; limits are scat and blood. I'm not really looking to rush into the sex- for me a lot of the fun of this fantasy is the dynamic between the characters, specifically revolving around a well-to-do woman submitting to someone "below" her station along with the risk of being exposed for her socially inappropriate relationship.