Notes

Basically, if an actress (especially one who's been in the business for two decades) isn't "selling" a scene in which she's being kissed/touched by someone, and I, as audience (who doesn't care for ~oppa), am feeling uncomfortable on her behalf, then it's pretty goddamn concerning, and people should consider the possibility that some gross shitty might be behind her ~lack of passion. That was really my point, tbh. I worry and care about women's safety in whichever environment, and I'm not going to bash an actress for "being cold," and I'm definitely not going to call her unprofessional, if I have no clue about how she's feeling. Gross stuff happens on set. (Just think about the anecdote Henr* C*vill shared a few days ago, where he described how he got a hard-on shooting a scene once, because an actress with "gorgeous breasts" was on top of him. Even as a "mere" joke, it's crass. As a reality? Urgh.) I might just have a different idea of what's professional and what is not. And "professionalism" in male-dominated workplaces often goes to the detriment of women ('s safety, dignity, self-respect, etc.).