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Venture Capital and Thoughts, Much Less - Ramiberacha


Rami Beracha's blog on the venture capital market. Rami is also the Co-Founder at Sosa.
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Communication is a major problem. It is a minefield that we have created. It starts a second after making the first contact with a person and is concluded with a spectacular explosion...
Our biggest mistake is that, with no reason whatsoever, we nearly always assume that we are in complete agreement with both sides' expectations without even trying to get our partner's mind to figure out what his expectations from us are. However, there is one thing that we almost always agree on: he doesn't miss an opportunity ....to increase the expectations gap. There is no one to inform us about the coming conflict.
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There are a variety of possible causes of miscommunications. Many of them stem from personality differences. Square personalities are more likely to not communicate with those who are liberal. People who are aggressive will be unable to reconcile their expectations with the expectations of passive people. This is easy to recognize - everyone knows that they are squared from the liberal, and passive from the aggressive.
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They may not realize that they're different. Imagine the personality gap. Nobody has ever noticed it or warned anyone else about it, studied it...NOT FREUD! !
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Ladies and gentlemen let me present to you a different type of personality The FULL and the HALF CIRCLE personalities! !
Note – This is behavioral guidance. After you have read the analysis, try to figure out which you are the most like in your character. Also look for who your partner in real life. If you discover that you're of two different kinds - as Bono song says "we are one but we're not the same" - then you should be thrilled because you may have just discovered the cause of the differences between you! If, on the other hand you're of similar to one another, then I am sorry, but I can't help you understand why you are in relationships that seem so bad.
Here we are...
Humans are divided into two. Some of us fall into the "full-circle" category that is a person who is totally independent and does not feel like he needs a partner. Yes, he needs a partner, yes there is a need for a partner and yes, he's on a continuous search of an ideal partner. Absolutely! All true! ... However, he will not be able to survive without the right companion. When he has found one, he wishes to continue living his life, by his side with his hopefully complete circle - partner.
The "half a circle" people on the other side need to find a companion. Once they find the miserable creature that they have found, they won't give up! In order to make one happy circle, they be able to almost join their victim... But don't let them do this absurdity of living together! The Halves do not want to compromise their desire to stare at each other from a distance of 0 for the rest. It is impossible for them to feel more intimate than that.
One of the most fascinating observations between kinds is the way they choose to part ways with their partner. The whole circle will typically let go of a partner with whom he has lost their chemistry rapidly. The half-circle kind of person will redefine what it means to have the same chemistry as their partners. They'll claim that they are 'holding on to this B..ST..RD until they are able to replace him with an upgraded version.
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Imagine a dance in which the half-circle and the full circle try to make their partner feel happy. The Half is able to make two steps to the left of the comfortable zone. The unexpected intrusion into the privacy of his own is a bit intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The only issue is that he took the Half from his comfort zone .... the Half is convinced that the Full made an innocent mistake. When he kindly compensate with another step forward. The Full starts to get angry and take a further, more significant step in the opposite direction.. the Half begins to suspect that there's something wrong regarding what's happening here and his next step is not at all gentle.. The Full.. the Half.. the Half and the Full both are angry at the other. Both understand why, but aren't using the correct terms. They aren't able to properly express their frustration, and so they search for the wrong things. It could have saved their lives if they understood the difference between the Half and Full.
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There is no single answer to this essay. However, there are some actions items:
1. Learn more about who you are.
2. Learn about your partner
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3. There is a difference.
3. Be respectful of the differences!
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One conclusion is"Live and let live..

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