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How to Talk to a Girl You Like and Get Her Attracted to You
Figuring out how to talk to a girl you like once you've initiated the conversation is probably the most nerve-racking and anxiety filled scenario for most guys to deal with. Just so we're clear, I'm not referring to any random pressure free conversation; I'm talking about conversations guys purposefully strike with women in whom they are romantically or erotically interested.

Conversation openers and the ensuing interaction are very interesting topics that come up a lot. This is understandable because conversation starters are what get everything going from dates and hookups to relationships and marriages. Yes, it is good to have a variety of ways in your back pocket to start a conversation. However with that being said, a lot of guys unnecessarily get so caught up with having the perfect opener. What really matters is that you get the interaction started and are able to keep the conversation going for as long as you need to.

Keeping the conversation going is where seemingly everyone tends to struggle. Taking it even a step further, keeping the conversation going is one thing; but keeping the conversation going while making it really interesting, fun and at the same time building attraction in the process is another ball game altogether. This ability is what separates the men from the boys; the guys who get the girls from the ones who don't.

When it comes to your opener with a girl you don't know, if you can't come up with anything clever - which is by no means an absolute necessity - then, keeping it simple works just fine. It can be as straight forward as simply introducing yourself. Just say "hi", tell her your name while you extend out your hand to shake hers

Learning how to talk to a girl you like should really be about getting out there and practicing. Just make sure that whatever you end up talking about, you come across as playful and light-hearted. So avoid serious topics as she certainly will not be expecting them especially if through the early stages of the interaction, your intent and interest in her was made clear.

Ask her questions about herself; in particular try to find out things she's passionate about. Try to appear fascinated by the responses and ask her to tell you more about them. This can make her feel comfortable as she'll be talking about something that makes her light up emotionally.

During the discussion, pay attention to everything she says and see if there is anything you can latch onto to create a connection between the two of you. In other words, the slightest thing you can relate to or that you have in common with her. It's important to try making a connection first before you start talking about yourself. By doing this and showing genuine interest in her while being funny, playful and flirtatious, she's more likely to pay attention to you and be curious about you.


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