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Rami Beracha's blog about the venture capital industry. Rami Beracha is co-founder of Sosa.
It's a big problem that people do not understand. It's like an open-air minefield. It begins one second after the first encounter with another person, and concludes with an incredible explosion...
Our biggest mistake is almost always taking for granted that there is a complete alignment of expectations on both sides. We don't want to pick out our partner's mind to find out what his expectations are. We're usually in total alignment with our counterpart, minus one aspect : he doesn't take advantage of the opportunity to increase the gap in expectations . We have not been notified by anyone.
There are many potential causes of miscommunications. Many of them stem from differences in our personalities. Square personalities are more likely miscommunicate frequently with liberal personalities. Affirmative personalities might find it difficult to align expectations with passive personalities. However, this is not difficult to recognize - we recognize squared from liberal and aggressive from passive.
What if they're completely different? They'll not be aware of that. Consider if there's a personality gap. No one has ever discovered it, warned about it, investigated it...NOT EVEN FREUD! !
Ladies and gentlemen let me introduce you all to an entirely different kind of personality The FULL and Half Circle personality! !
Be aware that this is not a form of the guidance for your behavior. After you've read the analysis, try and figure out which you are the most like in your character. In addition look for which person your companion in real life. If you find that you're different types - like Bono says, "we can be one, but not the same" If you do, then you ought to be extremely happy because you may have discovered the cause of some of your differences. If you're on the other side you're of the same type and you're not sure why, I'm sorry to say that I'm not able to help you understand why your relationships are shit...
So here we are...
Two types of human beings are there. Certain people are "full-circle", which is a self-contained person who is completely at home by him. He needs a partner. Absolutely! It's true! ... It is possible to live without his ideal partner. Once he's found one, he wishes to continue living his life by his side with his hopefully complete circle of a partner.
The other human side is made up of "half-a-circle" kinds - (no it's not full circles that were damaged during the delivery) (see below) ... It's true, they need partners, yes, they want a partner badly, yes, they are constantly searching, even religious, for a partner... and , yes, it's the same for national security for them to find their partner because they just cannot survive without one. They will not let go after they've found their miserable partner. They'll try to physically integrate with their victim to form a happy circle... and don't give them this bullshit of living shoulder to shoulder! They will not compromise their desire to be in a position to gaze at one with each other for the rest of their lives. They won't compromise on something less intimate to fulfill their desire to join with the other half and make up a whole.
An interesting distinction between the two types relates to the decision to let go of a partner. The full circle is likely to release themselves quickly from an individual he no longer has his chemistry with. The "half-a-circle" type , however, will redefine what it means to have mutual chemistry with their partners. They'll claim that they are 'holding on to this B..ST..RD' until they can replace him with an upgrade.
Imagine the incredible dance between a "half-a circle" and the full circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he took half of his comfortable zone .... and as the Half was certain that the Full made an innocent mistake The Half starts to get frustrated and takes another step backward. They know why but for the lack of proper language they are unable to adequately explain their agony and they turn to the wrong places! If they only knew that one is half and the other is Full it could have saved them ...
There isn't a single conclusion to this essay , but there are some action items:
1. Discover who you really are
2. Find out more about your partner
3. Make the distinction.
3. Be aware of the differences!
Actually, there's only one conclusion.
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