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Venture Capital and Thoughts, Much Less - Ramiberacha


Rami Beracha is the blogger for this blog. The focus is on venture capital. Rami Beracha co-founded Sosa.
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Communication issues are a major issue. I'd say it's like a minefield that we created .. It begins just a few seconds after contact, and culminates in an amazing explosion...
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The biggest error we make is to believe that we're in complete alignment in our expectations of each other without trying to guess what our counterparts expect from us. The one thing we do agree on is that our counterpart doesn't miss an opportunity to widen this gap ..... And no one is there to inform us about the coming confrontation.
There are a variety of reasons that lead to communication issues, and the majority of them stem from our personalities. The square personality is more likely to not communicate with liberal personalities. Affirmative personalities may be unable to reconcile their expectations and those of passive personalities. However, this is not difficult to spot - we all know the difference between squared and liberal, and passive and active.
But, what if they are very different, only they cannot recognize that. Imagine if there's an individual gap. There is no one who has noticed it and warned others about it, studied it...NOT REFUSE! !
Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen to an entirely new kind of personality we all share: the FULL CIRCLE personalities versus those of the HALF-CIRCLE people. !
Be aware that this is not a form of behavior guidance. After you've read the analysis, try to determine which type of persona best represents your personality. In addition look for the person who your partner in real life. If you find that you're different kinds, then you should be content. It could be the reason behind the differences you have. If however, you are of the same type, then I'm sorry but I can't help you understand why your relationships look like nothing but shit...
And here we begin...
Two kinds of people are human. There are two types of humans that are the full circle kind, who is completely self-contained and feels completely at ease being alone. He needs a partner. Absolutely! It's true! ... He can still survive without his ideal partner. He will live his life with his partner until the time comes to find one.
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The other aspect of humanity is made up of "half-a-circle" types that are (no this isn't full circles that have been damaged during the birth) - ... Yes they require partners and yes, they need an ally desperately, yes, they're always in a constant, almost religious, search for a partner... and yes it's the same in terms of national security to locate their ideal partner as they simply cannot survive without one. When they discover the miserable creature and they are unable to give up! To form a happy circle, they'll try to join their victim physically. The Halves won't accept anything less than staring at one another from a distance for the rest. It's impossible for them to be more intimate than that.
An interesting observation in the two types: the choice to let a relationship go. The whole circle is likely to let go of a partner who has lost their chemistry rapidly. The half-a–circle' types on the other hand will redefine the idea of having chemistry' with their partners to mean: 'I'm holding onto this B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him in a proper manner'.
Imagine the most amazing dance, when a "half circle", and a 'full-circle", are trying to make each other, and not even noticing their differing geometrical shapes. The Half smiles and makes two steps ahead. The Full considers the unwelcome intrusion a bit scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. Problem is, he made the Half move out of his comfortable zone ...... The Half is aware that the Full made an innocent mistake, so they take another step backwards.. But the Half soon becomes upset and begins to take a bigger, more aggressive step.. They know why but for lack of proper terminology and the inability to properly describe their frustration and go to the wrong direction! They could have escaped in the event that they knew the distinction between Half and Full.
There isn't a single conclusion to this essay , but there are some action items:
1. Find out who you are as a person.
2. Find out more about your friend
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3. Recognize that there is a big distinction.
3. Respect the difference!
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One conclusion can be drawn: Live and let live.

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