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Venture Capital. Thoughts and Much Less. - Rami Beracha


Rami Beracha writes about the world of venture capital. Rami is the co-founder of Sosa.
Miscommunication is a big problem. I would dare say that it's kind of a minefield that we created .. It starts just seconds after our first interaction with someone and ends with an impressive explosion...
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We make the most common mistake of believing that we are in complete alignment with the expectations of our partners. We're usually completely in sync with our counterpart, minus one aspect that he does not miss an opportunity to expand this gap . And we don't need anyone to warn us about the imminent conflict.
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There are a variety of reasons for communication issues. They usually are related to our individual personalities. People who are square are more likely to not to communicate well with liberal people. Aggressive personalities may struggle to align their expectations with passive personalities. It is simple to identify - everyone knows the difference between liberal and passive from aggressive.
What if they're completely different? They'll never realize that. Imagine to yourself that there is a kind of personality gap that exists, but is not even noticed by us. Nobody has ever found it or warned about it, nor investigated it. !
Ladies and gentlemen! I'd like to introduce you to a new personality one that we all share. The characters of the FULL CIRCLE differ from the HALF CLIRCLE types. !
Note: This analysis provides behavioral guidance. Determine what personality best represents what you're like, and then try to determine the person who is your partner. If you find that you are of two distinct kinds, as Bono says "we're one , but we're not alike", then you should be happy. You may have found the reason behind many of the differences in your life! If however, you're both of the same kind, then I'm sorry that I'm not able to explain the reasons why your relationships look terrible.
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So, here we begin...
Two categories of human beings are referred to as human. There are those who are "full-circle" types, a self-contained person that feels totally natural to be completely by themselves. It's true that he wants to be around someone else, and he's in search of one. Absolutely! 100% true! ... But, he will not be able to live without his dream companion until he finds one. He will continue living his life with the person he is going to marry once he finds one.
The "half-a circle" kind is the opposite aspect of humankind. (No, it's not full-circle that was damaged during the delivery). Once they find the awful creature, they will not give up! They will work to physically integrate their victim in a happy circle. The Halves will never compromise their affection for one another. They will stare at each other in the same way from the distance for the rest of their lives. Anything less intimate will fulfill their desire to be integrated with the other half and create a whole.
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A notable distinction between these types is the choice to end a relationship. The entire circle is likely to let go of a person who has lost chemistry very quickly. Half-circles on the other hand redefine the concept of 'having chemistry' with their partners to be: 'I'm hanging on to this B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him correctly'.
Imagine the incredible dance that occurs in which a "half a-circle" and a "full-circle" attempt to compete without being aware of their differing geometrical shapes. The Half is smiling and moves two steps ahead. The Full finds this unwanted invasion a bit scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfortable zone . Although the Half believes that the Full was innocent and made a wrong move, and he kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half becomes more worried and starts to get angry. They understand the reason, but since they don't know the proper terms to explain their confusion and head to the wrong places. They could have avoided their own misery by knowing the difference between Full and Half.
While there's no one conclusion, there are some steps you can take.
1. Find out who you really are
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2. Find out more about your partner
3. Recognize that there is a distinction.
3. Respect this difference!
Let's say there's only one conclusion: Live and let be.

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