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Hello Chiron, I'm delighted As you mentioned earlier that I can discuss(the dairy thing and all) anything with you.
I wanted to discuss with you on one topic but I don't want to disclose the identity of that person & I know you are also not interested in identity as well.

Now I'll just tell you the whole scenario in form of the story. I'll be grateful if you read the whole story & answer the questions
so I'll come to know about your perspective.

Story: There is one small family in an village. Family mainly focuses on their social status, security & safety. They are really
having an good image according to their surrounding. Their children's also carrying the same will cause they where raised in
that way. Family members decided to put their children in soo many restrictions & rules, so that they will maintain the
good image after them also & all the family members will get respected by whole village and the near by villages. Some many of
them blindly following their parents will just to get an appreciation by society.

Now here come's the twist in the story one child among them met an outside world person child can't help himself/herself
he/she breaks the rule set by family & started talking to person. After 3 days child realised that -"I can't do this my parents will get hurt cause of me I can't betray them". now the child decided not to talk that person anymore... but after 2-3 months that person keep trying to reach child, then child can't help himself/herself he/she started talking to that person on one
condition that, after 1year he/she will stop talking to that person forever.

In 1 year they become good friends, but as that child's condition he/she completely stoped talking to each other.
(2 years passed with major distance between them)
After 2 years that person managed to get in touch with one of the child's sibling so that he can ask about how's child is doing,
is he/she ok? & so on....Child also missing that person and coming back of that person in child's life made him so happy
that he/she can't resist & started talking to each other again, They starting living in their own world and really enjoys
each others company. Now after 1 year child don't wanna go away from that person cause they where having great bond
which they don't want to break.

Child started to think on the solution how not to breaks the friendship & law's set by the elder's. friendship will not get accepted to an opposite gender as per elders law, child need to have some relation. So child decided to make him brother/sister
so they will be accepted by society & ask for the same to the eldest member of the family & that person said clear "No".
The old man said "In order to talk with someone you will need an blood relationship or marriage" (which is fixed in presence of
elders with the same village boy/girl having good status).
Now they both get upset that they will not able to stay connected ever, they started to look for solution and one day that
person said "You can give any name to our relation I don't mind as long as I'll stay with you, talk with you...". Its like child
got an blank relation cheque on which child have to just right the relationship name.

This time child lost in deep thinking and one day that person ask child - "If I get near to your status & come to your home for elders permission asking you to mary me.. what are you going to say then - yes or no?" . without a sec delay child said - "yes".
Finally both decided to study hard & achieve their goal but they are having limited time. Elders will strat to look for men/women for him/her.

Note: 1. child want's the time from elders to achieve his dream(career) (but they will not manipulate their law's)
2. After becoming independent child want's to marry that person (but its against the rules, no one keep that child at home)
3.child don't want to hurt parents & that person (but whichever path child choose one of them will get hurt )

I hope you read it all, it's an long story (maybe boring for you to read) anyways I'm very glad, Chiron. Cause you read it all
and I know you are genuine whatever you are gonna suggest after reading story I'll appreciate it.(cause yes I know you think before you write ;p).

Question : according to you, what will you do if you are in that child's place?

(Once again Thank you, Chiron).