Notes

(I tried to keep us together but you were busy keeping secrets)-From anger issues to blaming others for your failure, if there’s a thing I’ve learned in my brutal life it’s to not be afraid of change, if you fail to change and face your problems, you will be changed by force, therefore it is always better to change when you are in control of the situation. Sometimes in life we are so clouded by our emotions, we tend to miss the forest for the trees

(Don’t tell your problems to everyone. 80% don’t care and the other 20% are glad you have them)-When you tell your friends about your problems, there will always be a handful that might use your own words against you. Be it relationship, family or work environment, in time of need, you will know who are your true friends. Don’t let your words from the past hurts you, if you need to talk to someone, make sure he or she will keep the secret and not throw it back at you

(Be careful with your words, once they are said, they can be only forgiven, not forgotten)-Silence is gold, words are silver. Sometimes it is best to keep quiet and be known as a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt. Once something is said, a person will always remember it. It is in our human nature to remember bad things better than good memories, for instant, when we think of someone, we tend to associate him or her with a bad behavior, rather than his or her good past.



(To understand a person’s character, don’t just look at their action, observe their reaction. It is harder to fake a reaction)-It is easy to fake a smile, but very hard to hold that smile. During a date, interview or socializing, always look for the reactions of the person. His hand gesture, body language or facial expression will be the best clue to what he or she is not telling you. A person that is hiding something tends to cross their arms, a person that is lying or hiding something tends to touch their nose often, this is because we uses more brain cells to think of a lie, thus the sudden rush of blood flow to the brain, therefore we tend to find the nose or forehead itchy, and our normal subconscious action is to scratch it.