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Stranger 16.15
hello!

Me 16.15
hi m

Stranger 16.15
hi, im a female here.

Me 16.16
how are u

Me 16.16
asl plz

Me 16.17
there

Stranger 16.17
im good, thanks. Im in my twenties, from singapore.

Stranger 16.17
u?

Me 16.17
29 london

Me 16.17
singapore nice place

Stranger 16.18
u ever been to asia?

Me 16.18
what u looking here?

Me 16.18
dubai

Me 16.18
thats it

Me 16.18
but hong kong and singapore is where i wana go next

Stranger 16.18
yeah, dubai's middle east, not quite asia.

Me 16.18
yes i know

Me 16.18
but i mean on that side

Stranger 16.18
glad u have an interest here too haha.

Me 16.18
haha

Me 16.19
well

Me 16.19
funnily i do some exports

Me 16.19
from uk

Stranger 16.19
export of what?

Me 16.19
and someone has told me u can do same from hong and singapore

Me 16.19
different things

Me 16.19
mainly in stock clearnces

Me 16.19
so like factories or big places

Me 16.20
buy stock and sell

Stranger 16.20
wow.

Me 16.20
and hoping if things goes to plan then in few months will be visting these places

Me 16.20
so what do u do?

Stranger 16.21
the stock market business is a crazy place. you have to have really good mathematical skills, i see.

Stranger 16.21
my interests lies in the sciences. but i do have an interest in entrepreneurship.

Me 16.21
sciences...what specific/

Stranger 16.22
Im majoring in Biology. plus a bit of physics and psychology.

Me 16.22
wow

Me 16.22
u must be very good in reading

Me 16.23
exceptional theoretical skills

Stranger 16.23
true that. just that im hoping to put those skills to more use than just research or teaching. those just don't appeal.

Me 16.24
well u just got to the hard work

Me 16.24
then u will have a choice to do what ever u want

Me 16.25
and could have something of ur own

Stranger 16.25
what's the happiest thing you've done in your 29 years of life?

Me 16.26
wow

Me 16.26
nothing for my self

Me 16.26
few things for my family

Stranger 16.26
that's sweet.

Me 16.27
family is family u know

Me 16.27
how old r u

Stranger 16.27
all my life, i've tried to make my family happy. But nobody wants to be perfectly happy i found. without some drama, life cannot go on. and i cant make my own happiness depend on the feelings of somebody else.

Me 16.28
simple solution

Me 16.28
how old r u

Stranger 16.28
Im 23.

Me 16.28
can i get ur name

Me 16.29
i m zaman

Me 16.29
u know i have a simple rule in my life

Stranger 16.29
sorry that, my spidey senses are tingling.

Stranger 16.29
what's ur rule?

Me 16.29
spidey senses

Me 16.29
u have none

Me 16.30
i have those

Me 16.30
anyway

Stranger 16.30
whaaat?

Me 16.30
i used to be the same do everything for the people regardless of any benefit

Me 16.30
but in return u get nothing

Me 16.31
so now my family is my parents and siblings and do alot for them but also think about my self

Me 16.31
apart of this anyone who i dont like or think are no good i just tell them to F off

Me 16.31
so always keep people who care about u close to u.rest can f off

Me 16.32
u there

Stranger 16.32
yeah i am.

Stranger 16.32
just digesting i guess.

Me 16.32
have some soda.. will help

Stranger 16.33
lol.

Me 16.33
lol

Stranger 16.33
i've cared so much abt my family that i've pushed away everyone who seemed to care about me.

Me 16.33
well then if they cant see it then u got to change

Me 16.33
so u can live ur life

Stranger 16.34
your name sounds like muslim, are u one?

Me 16.34
wow

Me 16.34
nice guess

Me 16.34
is it bcoz i told u my name

Me 16.35
or u really inteligent

Me 16.35
maybe a hacker..

Stranger 16.35
zaman is such a nice exotic name ive never heard before, not like john or james, you know.

Me 16.35
exotic nice lol

Me 16.35
first time someone has said that

Stranger 16.36
hey, a compliment - grab it before it flies away.

Me 16.36
not complaining

Me 16.36
whats ur name

Stranger 16.36
jumana.

Me 16.36
cool name

Me 16.36
what does u=it means

Stranger 16.37
it's means pearl.

Me 16.37
thats even richer

Me 16.37
nice talking to u

Me 16.37
u really seemed cool

Me 16.37
nice girl

Stranger 16.37
you going off alr?

Me 16.38
i dont want to really like talking to u

Me 16.38
but i m hungry

Me 16.38
so i dont know if u can wait for like 10 min

Stranger 16.38
lol.

Stranger 16.38
yeah, i don't mind waiting.

Stranger 16.38
what time is it there?

Me 16.38
16:38

Me 16.39
what abt u

Stranger 16.39
thanks for beiing honest. ;d

Stranger 16.39
it's 23:39.

Me 16.39
honest for what

Stranger 16.39
that ur hungry.

Me 16.39
lol

Me 16.39
its quite late

Me 16.40
are u not going uni or college tomroow?

Stranger 16.40
yeap, i do.

Stranger 16.40
sleeping didnt quite appeal yet.

Me 16.41
ahh i know that very well

Me 16.41
so

Me 16.41
if u dont mind

Stranger 16.41
go munch something

Me 16.41
on another thought can u cook

Me 16.41
lol

Stranger 16.41
omelettes, anyone?

Me 16.42
lol

Me 16.42
thanks

Stranger 16.42
that's the extent of it.

Me 16.42
i can do that myself

Stranger 16.42
😃

Me 16.43
so

Me 16.43
can i ask u personal thing

Me 16.43
like abt ur family

Stranger 16.44
u done eating alr?

Me 16.44
i m not a robot that u will charge my battery

Me 16.44
its in the procee

Stranger 16.44
sure - about the family. ours are probably quite similar.

Me 16.44
i have fry few things

Stranger 16.44
icic.

Stranger 16.45
dont let anything burn tho.

Me 16.45
lol

Me 16.45
i m careful dont qoeey

Stranger 16.46
As long as you qoeey, i won't.

Me 16.47
lol

Me 16.47
worry

Me 16.47
so u muslim?

Stranger 16.48
yeah genius.

Me 16.48
ohh

Me 16.49
how did u knew i m muslim

Stranger 16.49
is that a good or a bad ohh?

Me 16.50
i m muslim

Me 16.50
doest make any diff

Stranger 16.50
with my 'exceptional theoretical skills' i suppose

Me 16.50
as long as u r nice person i dont have any problems

Me 16.50
yes

Stranger 16.50
i am a muslim too,

Stranger 16.52
and my family is so super conservative i feel trapped. and hence the reason i am here, chatting with someone because i don't quite have close conversations with my people in my friends circle.

Stranger 16.52
it feels like a betrayal.

Me 16.52
i can understand

Stranger 16.53
thank god for that.

Me 16.53
i mean my family is the same

Me 16.54
i m not a bad person but still had done things which they wont like if they knew

Stranger 16.54
yes, i feel the same way.

Me 16.54
thts the way it goes

Stranger 16.55
they have a certain fixed ideal on who i should associate and when my friends don't match up to it, they tease and it kills me so much that somehow i push them away.

Me 16.56
thats the problem

Me 16.56
they want u to spend ur life the way they want

Stranger 16.56
and it hurts that i don't have people to call true friends. its all family and thats just unfair.

Me 16.56
but doest understand

Stranger 16.58
yeah. and in a way, yeah, i feel indebted to them because they've done so much, but i want to live my own life. i want to do more things, things i love.

Stranger 16.58
simple things actually, like going out on my own taking photography, attending public speaking talks and workshops and stuff. and each time i ask, i expect the answer no.

Stranger 16.59
i hate disappointing my father.

Stranger 16.59
but i keep disappointing myself too.

Me 16.59
in a country like hong kong

Stranger 16.59
yeah?

Me 16.59
u migrated

Me 16.59
ur parents i mean

Stranger 17.00
yeap, my parents are orginally from india. i was raised here tho.

Me 17.01
i m from pakistan ...

Stranger 17.01
nice.

Stranger 17.01
completely coincidental.

Stranger 17.01
i don't mind that - do u?

Me 17.02
no

Stranger 17.02
good. u migrated, or came uk for studying/

Me 17.02
if u come at the borders its different thou

Stranger 17.02
?

Me 17.02
lol

Stranger 17.03
ikr.

Me 17.03
yes

Me 17.03
study

Me 17.03
then just lived here

Me 17.04
goes to pak every year

Me 17.04
but have my life here

Me 17.04
everyone else lives back hom

Stranger 17.04
I see, it's good that u do go back often.

Me 17.05
love my family

Me 17.05
my dad is exactly how u describe but mum is sweet

Me 17.05
hardly talk to dad u know

Stranger 17.05
why not?

Stranger 17.05
is he like, you know, traditional dads?

Me 17.06
well lets say if sky is blue and i say dad sky is blue, however some one else has said to him sky is white..he will say sky is white

Stranger 17.06
ah.

Me 17.07
ofcourse i m a guy so it will be different

Stranger 17.07
i can emphathise.

Me 17.07
u r girl well 30000X more

Stranger 17.07
yup.

Stranger 17.07
you've siblings/

Stranger 17.07
?

Me 17.08
another brother n 3 sisters

Me 17.08
hard to imagine how can my dad love my mum that much

Me 17.08
lol

Stranger 17.08
sweet. i've a younger brother, he's 16 now.

Stranger 17.09
ur cheeky zaman.

Me 17.09
yeak i know

Me 17.09
its true thou

Stranger 17.10
haha, i see my mum and dad. wonder if i can ever match up.

Me 17.11
r they cool

Me 17.11
ur Dad m

Me 17.11
typical father?

Stranger 17.12
in the overprotective sense yeah. but we are close. i only really got to know and understand him once i started uni.

Me 17.15
so will he let u work after u finished uni?

Stranger 17.15
i had a crappy childhood and i blamed it on them for a long time. it was only after uni that i realised they did what they had to do, and i kind of forgave them for that and started anew. my mum is lovely but fragile. my dad, he gives alot of lectures and he and my brother goof around alot, but he treats me well.

Stranger 17.15
my mum works, so it's not a problem.

Me 17.16
ah

Stranger 17.16
but he's pushing me towards a particular industry which i don't want to.

Stranger 17.16
i want to go my own way, but i think he will understand that when the time comes.

Me 17.16
here one thing i always love about my father

Me 17.17
u know

Me 17.17
i m eldest

Stranger 17.17
yeah?

Me 17.17
my younger sister has done master is physics on her own choice and mashAllah now married with 2 kids

Me 17.18
2nd sister masters in chemical and at her own choice

Me 17.18
3rd well shes sweet heart so can do what ever she like

Stranger 17.18
im so proud for u.

Me 17.18
so thats the thing that my dad let us choose our educational life

Me 17.19
but personal is another matter

Me 17.19
and i can totally understand where u coming from

Stranger 17.19
same here. i've left the decision of finding a guy for me in their hands.

Me 17.20
but for u being a girl is really hard and me being a guy easy

Me 17.20
ohh realy

Me 17.21
but i guess they will let u know the guy and talk and feel easy around this whole thing right?

Stranger 17.21
i somehow disagree you know. as a guy, it's not very easy as well. im pretty sure as the eldest, you have responsibility your parents and siblings when you're older.

Me 17.21
ohh trust me their is not a second by that i dont think about that

Stranger 17.21
yes. it was hard but i talked to them about it, as long as they is a wali around, they should allow me to talk and get to know the guy beforehand.

Me 17.22
wali being a mula ?

Stranger 17.22
yeah. i am eldest and i worry about that too. i want the best for my parents when they're old.

Stranger 17.22
yes.

Me 17.23
so are they looking for guys from hong kong and applicants from all over the world can apply ?

Stranger 17.23
erm, i don't quite know what's a mula.

Stranger 17.23
wali is like a older relative who can kinda protect my interests.

Me 17.24
ok i got it

Stranger 17.24
oh zaman. ur way too cheeky.

Me 17.24
u know some time u just click

Stranger 17.24
ikr, i totally feel the same way.

Me 17.25
like when u wana click on something on ur PC it clicks

Stranger 17.25
lol

Me 17.25
thats what happend

Me 17.25
and u know why i said u that

Me 17.26
coz this laptop which i bought new has meesed up in first few months and it sometime does't click

Stranger 17.26
haha, okay.

Me 17.27
so u wana sleep

Stranger 17.28
wanna get rid of me so fast?

Me 17.28
hahaha

Me 17.28
u r silly

Me 17.29
u r Aston Martin for me

Stranger 17.29
oh please.

Me 17.29
sorry

Me 17.29
off the track

Stranger 17.30
i don't quite get what's the deal with guys and aston martin. my brother's crazy about it too.

Me 17.30
u know Aston Martin in the only big company to never have made any money

Me 17.30
is*

Stranger 17.30
really?

Stranger 17.30
why?

Me 17.32
worlds oldest car makers..Declared bank corrupt many times in their history.

Stranger 17.32
ah

Me 17.32
u know that guy 007

Me 17.33
his films has this car

Me 17.33
DB5

Me 17.33
and newest film DB10

Me 17.33
anyway

Stranger 17.33
yeap.

Me 17.33
so what u crazy about?

Stranger 17.34
im crazy about alot of things. which is strange cuz usually people have a few hobbies.

Stranger 17.34
i love photography, art, reading, writing and drawing.

Stranger 17.34
craft work i suppose.

Stranger 17.35
im a hands on person, i love building things like you know wood buildings, puzzles,

Me 17.35
really

Me 17.36
can u built an extention on rare of my house

Me 17.36
i mean professionally what u want to do?

Stranger 17.36
wood buildings as in the miniature versions with lots of instructions. nope, you really shouldn't trust me with ur house.

Stranger 17.36
right.

Stranger 17.37
professionally. i write.

Stranger 17.37
biology stuff.