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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha writes about the world of venture capital. Rami is the co-founder of Sosa.
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Communication issues are a major issue. It could be a dangerous hazard that is our own responsibility. It starts just a second after coming into contact with a person, and ends with an astonishing explosion...
Our biggest mistake is that, without good reason, we almost always assume that we are in complete agreement with the expectations of both sides without trying to pick our partner's brain in order to understand what his expectations from us are. One thing we do have in common is that our friend doesn't miss an opportunity to expand this expectation gap ..... There's no one out there to alert us of the imminent clash.
There are many causes for miscommunications, and most of them have to do with our personality. The square personality is more likely to not communicate with those who are liberal. Affirmative personalities may be unable to reconcile their expectations and those of passive personalities. This is evident that squared personalities can be distinguished from liberal, whereas aggressive can be distinguished from passive.
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Imagine if they were different? Imagine to yourself that there exists a sort of a personality gap that exists, but which we are not aware of. It's not something anyone has investigated, warned of, or identified. !
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Ladies and gentlemen let me introduce you to the different personality types: The FULL versus the HALF CIRCLE personality! !
This analysis offers guidelines for behavior. Find out which personality best describes who you are and then discover what your relationship partner's personality is. If you find that you are of different types and you are not satisfied. It could be the reason for the differences you have. If you're of the opposite kind, I'm sorry I can help you comprehend the reasons why your relationships look like crap.
Now we are...
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Humans can be divided into two distinct groups. There are those who are "full-circle' that is an independent person who feels completely at home being all by his own. He does want to be a part of a group and, the truth is, he's always seeking people to share his life with. Absolutely! It's all true ... However, until he's found the perfect partner, he will be able to live without one. After he has found the person of his dreams and is ready to spend his entire life with his - hopefully full circle of friends.
The other aspect of humanity is made up of "half-a-circle" kind of people that are (no this isn't full circles that have been damaged during the birth) (see below) ... It's true they are in need of an accomplice They want to find a partner very badly, and indeed, they are constantly, almost religious, search for a new partner... and , yes, it's on the same scale for national security to find their partner because they can't live without one. Once they find the awful creature, they will not give up! They'll move to physically integrate with the victim in order to create one happy circle... and don't give them this bullshit of living shoulder to shoulder! They'll not be compromising on being in a position to gaze at one others for the rest of their lives. Their desire to become one with their partner and form a unit will only be satisfied by something less intimate.
A fascinating observation about these two types: the choice to let a partner go. The entire circle is likely to be the first to let go of a companion with whom he has lost his chemistry quickly. The 'half-a-circle' types however they will redefine the concept of having chemistry mutually with their partner and say 'I'm hanging on to this B..ST..RD until I am able to replace him with a proper upgrade'.
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Imagine the most amazing dance, in which two "half circle" and a "full-circle", are trying to create one another, but without being aware of their different geometries. The Half is smiling and makes two steps forward. The Full finds the unwelcome intrusion a bit scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He pushed the Half out of his comfort zone . Even though the Half assumes that the Full made an innocent mistake, and was kind enough to compensate by taking a second step ahead, the Half is more worried and starts to feel angry. They know why but for in the absence of a proper term and the inability to properly describe their agony and they turn towards the wrong directions! They could have saved their lives being aware that one is Half and one is Full.
While this article isn't intended to be a comprehensive guideline, there are some steps you could take.
1. Learn who you are
2. Discover who is your partner really is.
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3. Realize there is a difference.
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3. Be aware of the differences!
Let's just say that there's only one way to go: Live and let be.

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