Notes

Hello mate,

The same feeling of joy with a new reunion between us involves both of us—I am also glad to hear from you.

I was involved in an unpleasant situation with an ex-boyfriend of my wife, whose restrictive mind does not conceive the thought that I am not the obstacle to the resumption of contact between them, but the very one. I have been ignoring the messages from this tormented soul until an involvement on my part became inevitable. Just to give you some context, here: [https://notes.io/q2K4z] With the anonymity deactivated and he duly blocked, that uncongenial being has not been present to us.

Thank you, for asking and especially for the genuine interest.

The situation you told me about left an ocher trail on the air with just the summary, my estimate mate. I am sincerely sorry that you have experienced such disappointment through thoughtless human action. Poor thing, maturity will come for her one day. We must not take it personally. We must bear in mind that we do what we can, as far as we can. Anyway, you did well.

To act differently would have been self-violation. Keep walking the path indicated by your internal compass and listen to the intuitions whispered by your heart. It has not failed you once.

For the record: I understand your perspective, of course, I do. It is both right—yours and the writer's to reveal yourselves or not, when and to whomever you both wish.

Indeed, you mentioned the occured. He threatened you and the writer. Terrible and eternal times these, in which souls do not respect the limits and right to be of each one. And what is the name of this soul devoid of the slightest common sense? Some webs are very well woven, my friend. Some relationships are similar to a puppet show. There is always someone in the shadows manipulating the strings.

The way you expressed yourself about it, I must admit, reached me as if the event had been imbued with a certain toxicity. You should not do anything to yourself that degrades your peace of mind, that makes you feel like the biggest traitor of yourself. Take a deep breath, my friend. And drink some tea. Remember: if you need me, close your eyes and mentalize my figure— I will come to you, wherever you are.