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'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha's blog is about the venture capital industry. Rami is the co-founder and CEO at Sosa.

Miscommunication is a big issue. It's a minefield caused by us. It begins just a second after we make the first contact with a person and is concluded with a stunning explosion...

We make the most common mistake of thinking we're in complete alignment with our partners' expectations. One thing we can be sure of that our partner doesn't miss any opportunity to increase this expectation gap . There's no one to tell us about the coming clash.

There are many reasons that could lead to communication issues. People with square personalities tend to be more susceptible to miscommunication than liberal personalities, while individuals who are aggressive may have trouble in coordinating their expectations with those of passive personalities. This is easy to recognize and everyone is aware of the difference between the liberal, and passive from the aggressive.

What if they are very different, only they cannot realize it. It is possible that there is a gap in their personalities that we aren't aware of. Nobody has ever traced it, warned about it, or investigated it...NOT even EVER FREUD! !

Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen, to an entirely new kind of personality we all have: the FULL CIRCLE personalities as opposed to the HALF-CIRCLE people. !

The analysis intended to provide behavioral guidance. After reading this analysis, you will be able to identify the personality that best describes you. Also, you can try to identify your partner in the life. You might be shocked to find that your personalities are different. As Bono sang, "we are one, but we're not the exact same." It's a great sign as it could mean that you've discovered the cause of many of your different personalities. If however, you're both of the same kind, then I'm sorry that I can't help but to provide a reason for the reason why your relationships appear so terrible.

And here we are...

Two groups of humans can be described as being human. Some of us are the 'full-circle' types which is a person who finds it easy to be completely by themselves. He needs a partner. Absolutely! Absolutely! ... But, he will not be able to live without his dream companion until he can find one. Once he's found the one he wants, he would like to live the rest of his life in a relationship with his - hopefully full circle - of friends.

The "half-a circle" type is the other side of humanity. (No this isn't a the full-circle type that was damaged in the delivery). They are not going to let go of their miserable animal when they discover it. They will attempt to live with their victim as if were one of them, and will not let go of the idea of living in harmony. The Halves aren't content with anything less than staring at each other from a distance of zero distance for the rest. Their desire to merge with their partner and create a whole will only be fulfilled by things that aren't as intimate.

A fascinating observation of the two types is the decision to let go of an individual partner. A partner who has lost their chemistry with the full circle will be dismissed easily by the entire circle. On the other hand, the 'half-acircle' types will redefine the meaning of chemistry between two people to mean - "I am holding on to this B..ST..RD., until I am able to replace him with a new upgrade."

Imagine the incredible dance that happens when the "half" and "full" circle attempt to be their partner. They're unaware of their distinctions. The Half takes two leaps in the air, way away from the safety space of the Full, who considers the sudden intrusion into his personal space a little too terrifying. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he has stepped out of his comfort zone .... and as the Half was sure the Full made an innocent error The Half starts to get frustrated and takes another step forward. They can understand the reason, but since they don't know the proper terminology they can't adequately explain their confusion and head to the wrong directions. It could be a lot easier for them to live if they understood the difference between half and full.

While there isn't any one answer, there are many actions that can be taken.

1. Discover who you are
2. Learn about your partner
3. Realize the difference.
3. Respect the distinction!

One conclusion is: Live and let the life flow.



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