Notes

Gue tau gue belom pernah pacaran, dan temen2 gue itu suka blg gini ke gue, day cobain aja dulu pacaran. Lah kok dicobain? Apa si yang dicobain? Apa si yang dikejer? Mindset nya aja kali salah. Gue mungkin naive tapi gue liatnya itu kayak tahap getting to know dan preparasi diri utk tahap selanjutnya
Ya tahap selanjutnya kagak secepat itu juga, tapi gue males si pacaran kalo ga bisa liat long term nya gimana. Jadi gue milih nabila itu, gue ga masalah kalo sampe kapan pun nabila aja gt.
Gue emg belom tau apa2 tapi in facing the person that we desire kita pasti rise up to meet their expectation kan? Gue aja gitu, kayaknya semua org gitu deh, but we all do it slightly differently.
If there's a quality where we both take the same approach , itu bisa jadi fondasi interaksi kita. If there's a quality we crave in the other person, harapan kita, quality itu bs tertular ke kita. Jadi gue mikir how much we have in common or how different we both are, jadi ga relevan gitu.
Yang penting we are as we are today is enough for both parties. Jadi sebenarnya pasangan nya sapa aja