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As a professional Jew, I’m happy to chat people up at services. That’s what I was doing on Friday night–mingling with the crowd of mostly baby boomers while we waited for candle lighting. Some fellow was explaining the details of living aboard a boat when I felt her eyes on me. I have a well-developed sense of when people are looking since they so often are.
I caught her eyes with my eyes. Noticed her, noticing me. She read queer, looked 70 or so and had a long list of affinity groups, each one with a different colored ribbon, attached to her name tag. “I’m not staring at you,” she explained. “Someone is supposed to join me and I‘m watching out for them.”
In response, I summoned my inner drag queen, stretched my arms wide apart and proclaimed “It’s okay. Everybody stares at me.” People do. Stare. I’m a 6-foot 5-inch woman with a loud voice and a flair for the dramatic. I used to be a man. I may have pornographically perfect breasts and a beautiful lipstick smile but I do not pass. I don’t try.
“Oh, sweetie, not like that. My daughter is trans.”
“My daughter is trans.” A mother’s love inflected in every syllable. The words my own mother, who died six weeks ago, would never speak. My. Trans. Daughter. My mother, manipulated by a twisted orthodoxy, swayed by politicians and the beneficiaries of my disinheritance, denied us both those words of affirmation.
I sat down. Introduced myself and confessed how desperately beautiful it was to hear someone who could be my mother speak the sentence I so wanted to hear. Her name was Deborah Ross. We talked of mothers and daughters, love and death. Big things.
The whole world became just the two of us.
And for a moment, I was loved, accepted, seen, acknowledged. Someone’s daughter.
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