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Fappys has joined the chat
Fappys: Hello.
Psi has changed the room to: [IH] Saltwater Fresh
Fappys: How are you?
Psi: sec
Fappys: Okey
Psi: back
Psi: sorry i was talking to sis in law
Psi: gma passed away at 4 am
Psi: that's what happened the day i told you i didn't want to talk, she was in the emergency room
Psi: i visited her yesterday
Fappys: If I knew it was something like that I wouldnt have complained....Sorry to hear about that.
Psi: no it's fine. i just need you to respect my boundaries joakim
Psi: i want to be your friend, but you really threw some hurtful shit at me
Psi: have fun with your gf you pedo?
Psi: first of all, issa's legal
Psi: and second of all why do you have such a big problem with her?
FappysFappys Add Friend: I respect your boundaries but you get mad at me when I have opinions about something when im complety calm. Yes I was hurt and sad when i said that.
Psi: give me an example of what i get mad about?
Fappys: When I have something to say about Issa or if I have something to say about us that annoys me
Psi: like what?
Psi: issa's so close to me, i can never change how i am with her
Psi: you just get angry at that
Psi: and i don't get it because i met you being close to issa
Fappys: So you think it's okey to make other feel left out?
Fappys: I dont get angry
Psi: joakim we made you sleep with us
Psi: we never made you feel left out
Fappys: And Issa only talks to me because i was friend with you
Psi: you've never been kicked out of our rooms
Psi: issa barely talks to any of my friends
Fappys: Mhm extacly
Fappys: It's only you
Psi: that's her choice, i don't care if you don't want to talk to anyone else
Psi: as long as no one disrespects one another, everyone is entitled to forming/not forming relationships with my other friends
Fappys: I told you how I felt and you said it was okey but next day you got mad about it
Fappys: Saying that I wanna destroy your relationships with your friends
Psi: because you tried to ruin my friendship with charm
Fappys: No I didnt
Psi: you need to see things from my perspective
Fappys: How did I try to destroy it?
Fappys: And you need to see things from my perspective
Psi: by trying to get me angry at her too @ your third wheel comment
Psi: i do see them and i think you over react
Fappys: Wasnt trying anything
Fappys: I only told you what she said to me
Psi: because you know that i'm close with issa already
Psi: you know it
Psi: but you don't accept it
Psi: you make it seem like
Psi: i igore you when i'm around her
Fappys: Nah
Fappys: I know you dont
Psi: you also posted me on your profile card calling me fake?
Psi: if anything i'm probably one of the realest people you've met on here
Psi: no bullshit, fine-cut communication
Fappys: That's why you suddenly just say that you dont wanna be friends anymore
Psi: exactly, because i didn't like who you were when you got that way
Fappys: Because you hurted me
Psi: it's a version of yourself that you need to work on because it is harmful to my emotional wellbeing
Psi: when i hurt you, you sit and you talk to me properly
Psi: you don't run off, get moody, get passive, throw hurtful comments
Fappys: You were ignoring me
Psi: you also don't bring in other friends into the picture like charm
Psi: because i was having a really bad day
Psi: same day my bro got news that he could permanently lose his hearing loss bc he got a specific kind of disease
Psi: and that same day my nan went to the ER
Psi: and i was arguing with my family all day
Fappys: How would I know? I dont read minds.
Psi: i told you i had a rough day
Psi: and i told you i didn't feel like talking
FappysFappys Add Friend: And you told me that you would tell me when you online again
Fappys: you were*
Psi: i did, and i didn't feel like it because it just piled up to the point where i can't really talk about the day without feeling like utter shit
Psi: it doesn't mean i betrayed my promise, it just means that under those circumstances i wasn't able to
Psi: i don't open when i feel like someone's being pushy with me
Psi: you give me my space and i'll feel comfortable
Psi: if not, i'll close up
Fappys: Sorry but I was just worried about you and wanted to help you
Fappys: And its hard to help someone when I dont know what's going on
Psi: i don't know who in your life fucked you up making you think that if people don't give you attention or don't reply to you when you want them to reply, means that they don't care or they're all the sudden leaving you
Psi: i'll let you help me when i'm ready to
FappysFappys Add Friend: But you left?
Psi: but i don't usually need the help
Psi: here i am joa
Psi: you know exactly how to reach me
Psi: i only respond to proper communication
Psi: if you disrespect me i won't respond
FappysFappys Add Friend: You are here because I reached out
Psi: yes that's right, because i didn't do anything wrong with you
Psi: you just refused to listen to me
Fappys: Yeah
Psi: do you understand what i'm saying?
Fappys: Yes
Fappys: Im not stupid
Psi: do you agree with it?
Fappys: Yes I agree with you fully.
Psi: ok