Notes

THE BIBLE




1) Sucking the clitoris. First, put some saliva on the clitoris to make it wet if it it is not slick already. Then wrap your lips around her clitoris and move it around the roof of your mouth with your tongue.

2) Giving the clitoris a "blow job." If your partner has a larger clitoris, purse your lips and move up and down on it like giving a blow job. If her clitoris is smaller, use the lips of her vagina and suck on them like a blow job and finish on the clitoris.

3) Lapping the clitoris. When you lap the clitoris, use your whole tongue instead of just the tip, or alternate with the tip and the whole tongue. When you do this, try to make sure your lips run the length of her vagina too unless you are fingering her at the same time.

4) Lips side-to-side. First, moisten your lips. Then, put her clitoris between your lips and slide your lips side to side along her clitoris. You can alternate this with the flicking of your tongue just on the tip of her clitoris.

5) Finger massaging the clitoris. Suck on the tip of her clitoris while massaging the sides with your fingers. To do this, put her clitoris between your thumb and forefinger and then gently rub your thumb and forefinger together while sucking on the head of her clitoris. If she has a smaller clitoris, massage the top half of her vaginal lips in the same manner instead.

1) The Labial Hold

The Labial Hold is a easy move. While holding the two parts of her labia (vaginal lips) together with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time.

2) Tongue Sex

Most of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside. Target these nerves with your tongue by inserting it into her vaginal opening. Techniques are somewhat limited unless you have a long tongue, but you can still cause her intense pleasure by gently moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside of her opening.

3) The Flick

Spread her outer labia with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue around her clitoris. Feel free to roam around other parts of her vulva, but keep coming back to her clitoris, as it is the most sensitive. This techniquedrives some women wild with passion, though others find it to too intense. When stimulating her clitoris, make sure to begin gently until you can determine how well she likes it. Observe her reactions to your actions and pay attention to whether those moans are pleasure or pain.

Be cautious with the next three moves Be sure not to apply them until your woman is fully aroused. These are powerful techniques that may be too intense for some women, even when they are close to orgasm.

4) The Clitoral Suck

Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and lightly pull back her hood. With her clitoris exposed, give it a quick, little suck; pull it into your mouth briefly, and let it go. Treat it as if you are licking cake frosting off of your little finger. This feels incredible, but don’t overdo it! Do NOT use your teeth or hard suction when beginning. Again judge her reaction to your action. As you are performing the Clitoris Suck, insert your middle and index finger into her vagina with your goal being to find and stimulate her G Spot. Once mastered, combining these two moves will leave your women breathless.

5) The Clitoris Hold
Take her exposed clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with skillful finger action, will usually rapidly produce an powerful climax.

6) The Tongue Tube
This technique works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth. In effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge to an explosive climax.

1) With first-time cunnilingus you MUST be gentle with her. Stroke and kiss her back and legs, and then only when she is ready, move to the vulva and lick and kiss it gently.

2) Lick around the vaginal opening. Run your tongue around the entrance and caress her gently with your gliding motions. She may like circular motions or a light licking motion across the entire opening.

3) Probe her vagina with your tongue. Stick it in as far as you can. See if you can replicate the thrusting motions that you normally do with your penis. After every few thrusts, bring your tongue up to her clitoris for a couple of licks, and then resume your probing.

4) Run your tongue up and down the entire length of her inner labia on both sides. Use the tip of your tongue and then use the full width of your tongue. Make sure that you are grazing over her clitoris during this process, too. You can also include her perineum area between her vagina and anus.

5) Apply indirect pressure to her clitoris by circling all around it with your tongue. You may need to stop holding her labia lips open for this part. Some women, who can’t take direct pressure, respond better to indirect pressure. When you are holding apart her labia lips, you are making the clitoris more pronounced, and it could possibly be too much. Ask her.

6) Apply direct pressure by continuing to hold her labia lips open, and licking directly on her clitoris. Try making quick, flicking motions on her clitoris with your tongue, up and down or back and forth. You can also change it up and move your tongue in small circles around her clitoris in one direction and then the other..

7) Another thing to try is to suck her clitoris into your mouth and then gently suck on it as you would her nipple. As you are sucking on it, you can use your tongue on it at the same time.

8) When you are devoting your mouth and tongue to her clitoris, you can also incorporate your fingers during this time by fingering her vagina. You will help to stimulate the G-spot if you bend your fingers gently into a “come here” motion while inside her.

9) You can easily add rimming or analingus to oral sex if she is comfortable with it. There are many nerve endings at the entrance to the anus, and many women are surprised to find out how stimulating that area can be.

10) As a woman nears her climax, she may want more direct stimulation. In general, fast, rhythmic stimulation is most effective at causing climax. As the moment arrives for her to orgasm, lick her clitoris hard and fast. Many women enjoy strong stimulation while having an orgasm, so keep it going until she asks you to stop.



After you've thought about it for a while, this will seem obvious. Just remember that it probably wasn't, until a minute ago...

The way a cough drop, either menthol or mint, works is to stimulate the mucus membranes in your mouth in the special way that feels "cool and tingly". Well, one of the few other places (easily accessible) on the human body that has mucus membranes is the vaginal area. Many people find that, correctly applied, a cough drop feels just spectacular down there. Most people at least find it a very...ah...refreshing change of pace.

A few important tips:

Use sugar-free cough drops. N'ice is a great brand, especially the menthol or mint versions. If possible, find one (whatever brand) with both menthol and mint. It's actually possible that sugar cough drops are just fine, or even better...the debate is over whether the sugar might feed an already existing yeast infection. The things I've heard from semi-expert (medically) people are that it may feed one (and thus aggrevate it), that it actually will protect from yeast infection (I forget the reasoning, it may have been a Ph thing), or that it's not the kind of yeast that eats sugar anyway. One thing's unanimous: sugar cough drops won't make any difference unless you're already infected, they don't carry that kind of yeast. In fact, a human's fingers or tongue would be more likely to (and even that is pretty unlikely, if they're of even typical cleanliness).
Let the drop become even more rounded and smoothed by sucking on it for a while, if you're actually going to apply it inside (which is the most effective way).
Speaking of which, the best thing to do is actually insert it with your fingers. This only works if you're going to be using your fingers during the cunnilingus, though an alternative is to leave it there for a while and then engage in coitus, which can be pretty nifty for both parties.
If not insertion, the best way is to simply suck on it and then, with cough-droppy saliva, lick her as you would have done anyway,perhaps using the Alphabet method. This isn't quite as amazing, but is still pretty good.
Altoids are supposed to be pretty good, but they're very powerful. I haven't yet verified whether they work, though Don & Mike (Radio Gods) unintentionally made a big deal of it recently. They admitted they were working from a position of ignorance, much like their reviews of movies they have never seen.
Don't forget to try breathing on, or blowing lightly on, her vagina/clitoris. The effect is more subtle until you try this... it's the exposure to air that makes it especially tingly.



Believe it or not, Sam Kinnison's suggestion of licking the alphabet, one letter at a time, on and around her clitoris/vulva actually works. I had come up with a similar technique myself, but his version is pretty close to the perfect formula -- The real goal is to be able to keep regular, rhythmic motions going, but to change them in some gradual pattern that isn't so different it throws her off, but isn't so redundant that she grows insensitive to it. The alphabet is probably the longest chain of shapes that you can be sure to repeat smoothly and rhythmically, without loosing track of where you are. Unless you are a victim of public education, I suppose, in which case you may have to stick to the letters of your name, or the numbers one through nine (being too confused by where to put the zero).

I would not suggest combining this with the g-spot stimulation, at least not with the intention of really giving her g-spot orgasms. The two techniques conflict a bit, as the focus of arousal is so different.




When Christmas time rolls around, some stores sell a kind of candy cane that's over an inch thick and six or eight inches long at the straight part (it may not even have the hooked part at all).

Take one end of that, and suck/lick it until it is more rounded and smooth, and you have one of the most entertaining objects you might ever insert in your lover's vagina. It has that special minty feeling, like a cough drop but milder, and is the approximate size/shape of a penis.






The vagina actually shares a wall, on one side, with the rectum. Not only does this mean that sexual stimulation is possible from anal entry (which is a whole separate page), it also means that a similar sensation can be acheived without ever touching her butt (not that there's anything wrong with that...heh) by stimulating the side of her vagina where it shares nerves with her rectum. This is more or less the exact opposite, one hundred eighty degrees around, from the g-spot. In other words, if you were to reach in and arch your finger to touch her g-spot, then rotate your hand to face the exact other direction and make a similar (but flatter) motion, you've got the right area. Common sense should tell you where I'm talking about, anyway, since it's the area where it would touch her rectum, inside.

It rarely works well to stimulate this early on...usually you need to not only build up to it, but even get her pretty excited and sensitive first. This is not only to make the area more receptive, but also, in some cases, so that she will be beyond any danger of distraction over the tabooness of how it feels somewhat like you're stimulating her anally.

Press more with the length of your finger, not the tip. This works best, in many cases, as a change of pace, not the main attraction. Which leads us to...




Around the World -- or the Sea, Anyway

Once you have your lover "used to" the whole g-spot stimulation thing (she will actually get "better at" cumming from g-spot stimulation, the more it's done to her), you can try, occasionally and for variety, stimulating her g-spot until she starts to really respond, then switching back and forth between pushing (as gently as normally necessary for that particular lover) her g-spot and pressing the length of your finger on the opposite side, as per the last section. Sometimes you can even get to the point of doing one press on one side, one on the other, back and forth, which can feel amazing and a bit "what on earth are you doing? No, I didn't say to stop" to her. Most likely, though, it'll work better if you switch every several seconds, not every time you press.

Around the World -- Part II

I should not fail to mention the cervix. You may not have even noticed it, by touch, but it's there and once you find it you'll wonder how you missed it (unless your lover has had histerectomy, in which case it's missing, no big deal). This is yet another area where you definitely want to build up to stimulating, as it can actually be painful to even touch if she's not excited enough...but, despite assumptions to the contrary, it can be very useful for stimulation, done correctly.

As I said, issue #1 is that she must be very aroused. Well, bearing in mind that everyone's different, of course.

The Cervix is also about 180 degrees around from the g-spot, but it's in much deeper (typically). It leads back to the rest of her reproductive organs, like the womb. If she's pregnant, don't mess with this at all. Watch out, too, for IUDs and diaphrams and the like. Hopefully you are on good enough terms with her to already know if she's using one of these contraceptive devices, which fit over the cervix.

The cervix is not an abtract "area", it actually juts up, like a little flesh mesa or something. It has an opening at its very "peak", but this is normally closed pretty tightly.

The best way to start is to gently caress around the sides and base of the cervix. Remember, she should already be very "hot" before you even start this part. Eventually, build up to circling it with one or two fingers, around and around, gently staying in contact with it so she can feel the motion through the cervix itself. How hard you can press depends a lot on the specific woman. This is also something that probably works better as a change of pace, not the "main course" of the cunnilingus session...unless she really gets into it.

That circling motion may get another round of "what on earth are you doing...hey! Don't STOP doing it!".

You may even, and in my experience this rarely works, but works well when it does, be able to press directly on the tip, with your finger or fingers, pressing it the way a penis might if one happened be entering her at the right angle to hit her cervix.

Actual Anal Stimulation

This works very well with cunnilingus, if the woman is comfortable with it. In fact, it has its own section on the Advanced Anal Sex Techniques page...I won't go into any real detail here but to point you to that page.